Ep. 204 | How did the Child-Rearing Responsibility Suddenly Fall More on the Mother
The Family Teams Podcast
Jeff Bethke
4.9 • 729 Ratings
🗓️ 20 November 2019
⏱️ 5 minutes
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Jeremy and Jeff discuss how the child-rearing responsibility has fallen to the mother.
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| 0:00.0 | Well, I feel like there's a couple different layers that I think we don't realize always compounded |
| 0:03.8 | the mom's responsibility. |
| 0:09.1 | What's up, guys? |
| 0:10.0 | Welcome to another five-minute fatherhood. |
| 0:11.6 | So we want to talk about how did the parenting and child-rearing responsibility suddenly |
| 0:18.6 | fall more on the mother than the father? |
| 0:22.2 | A lot of us don't think of this as a new idea. But historically, it is a fairly new idea. And so what we see as oftentimes the |
| 0:29.8 | goal or the ideal from the 1950s, that was fairly new, even in the 1950s, that the mother was |
| 0:37.3 | sort of seen as the primary person that |
| 0:40.0 | cared about the home. And one person who's really done a lot of research along this Blankenhorn, |
| 0:45.9 | he wrote a book about fatherless families, and he said, God has given fathers a unique role |
| 0:51.2 | in the education of their children. The word discipline did not originally mean |
| 0:54.3 | punishment. It meant teaching. Just a few hundred years ago in colonial America, fathers bore the |
| 0:59.9 | ultimate responsibility for the care and well-being of their children. Fathers assumed primary |
| 1:05.6 | responsibility for what was seen as the most essential parenting task, the religious and moral education of the young. |
| 1:12.2 | As the Industrial Revolution removed men from the household economy, women became the primary |
| 1:18.8 | influence in the home. This shift has been one of the defining features of American domestic |
| 1:24.8 | life since the 1840s. And so if you think about this experiment |
| 1:31.5 | is almost about 150 years old, what happens when we make a collective decision to disintegrate |
| 1:38.3 | work from family, send the father out to work apart from the family, and then tell our wives and the mother that they're |
| 1:46.5 | the ones who need to pick up all the slack at home. |
| 1:48.8 | How is that working? |
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