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Ending your sentence with a little emoticon with a smiley face is not making the conflict go away.

If you confuse being likable with being sweet and charming and agreeable, you are disempowering yourself.

If you feel as if you have the courage to be able to say, look, we have to sit down and talk about what the problem is, take ownership and

work towards a solution. That makes somebody popular because they have a desired

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I was thinking that I've heard from so many of you that you're listening to

her money on your way into the office in the morning.

I'm glad that you're taking us with you on your daily commute.

That's where I sample my share of podcasts as well.

It's an honor to get to share a small part of your work day

before you get into the nuts and bolts of it or even into the grind. It is that grind, that slog as some people call it that we're going to dive into today

because here's the dirty little secret. Not all of us love our jobs. I know I know we are not

supposed to admit that in an era where everyone is supposed to love what they do, that it's supposed to light us up,

that it's supposed to fulfill us, but as much as we are told, daily it seems on

social media that our jobs should inspire passion that we

should adore the tasks that we are asked to perform for the purpose of

earning money some of us just don't like it. Some of us have not

found our calling. Some of us haven't found that place where we feel like we can

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