Ep 198 - The Quiet Rules of Japan That Make Your Trip Magical

Wabi Sabi - The Perfectly Imperfect Podcast with Candice Kumai

Candice Kumai

Health & Fitness, Education, Health, Wabisabi, How To, Nutrition, Mental Health, Wellness

4.9 • 793 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2026

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode is for anyone traveling to Japan soon—or anyone who simply loves Japan and wants to understand why it feels so magical. Because yes, Tokyo is dazzling, Kyoto is beautiful, and the food will ruin you in the best way… but the real secret is something quieter. Japan runs on what I call the quiet rules—the small cultural details that make your trip smoother, more respectful, and honestly, more elevated. These are the habits that help you move through stations with ease, feel confident in restaurants, understand onsen etiquette, and avoid the mistakes that unintentionally scream “tourist.” So if you have a trip coming up, grab a pen, take notes, and share this episode with your friend who’s about to book Tokyo and Kyoto and call it done. And even if you don’t have a trip planned, these little cultural cues are still inspiring—because they teach us how to move through the world with more intention and grace. Thank you for listening! X Candice

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0:00.0	Hi, friends. Konichua, kongba-kong-wa, genkideska. This is Kandis Koumi for the Wabi Sabi podcast, episode number
0:09.1	198. I hope you have all been having a great new year. I have been very inspired by my Japanese
0:18.7	ancestors and family. I'm sure you've seen I've been out in Japan to say goodbye to a lovely family member.
0:27.4	So it has been very tough, but also very real and a gift from her.
0:33.1	I wanted to say thank you to all of you guys who look at my Insta and send messages and notes of encouragement and love and light and know how hard it's been officially giving out free work for 20 years.
0:47.3	So 2026 marks 20 years since Top Chef. It's exhausting. I know how burnt out you are. I know how burnt out everybody has been.
0:58.4	And so my job here is to kind of bring us back to center. And I know that I can teach us some
1:06.0	really special Japanese techniques to finding more of that magic in our life.
1:11.6	We can't possibly say that this is it.
1:14.3	We can't possibly say that the rules that our boomer parents taught us are the way to live.
1:20.0	They certainly have great advice to give us, but it's not the way that we need to live our lives right now.
1:26.7	So today I'm also going to share
1:28.5	the, basically the quiet rules that make Japan, Japanese culture, and your trip to Japan
1:39.6	really magical. I know you have friends that go there and say, best two trips or best two weeks
1:46.5	of my life, like a most amazing place in the world, like so incredible. And I can bet you they only
1:53.5	went to Kyoto and Tokyo, if not just Tokyo. And yes, it's true. Like even just the Tokyo region
2:00.5	can make you just incredibly
2:04.1	inspired and you feel like you're in the future because you are, you're going forward in time
2:10.9	when you are flying out from L.A., New York, you know, Austin, Chicago, Dallas, Hawaii, anywhere that you're traveling, even if you're listening
2:21.3	over from Europe or Africa or different parts of Asia. Like, I welcome you to listen to this pot as well.
2:26.7	It's not just for bad-mannered Americans. It's for everyone. So, and it's not to say that every
2:33.8	American is bad-mannered. I'm almost positive if you
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