Welcome back to another episode on the Aaron Dowdy podcast.

My name is Aaron Dowdy and this episode was probably one of the funnest ones I've done

in a very long time.

I'm going to show you step by step how to take things and not make them so important

and how to detach yourself from the outcome of things you're putting on a pedestal.

Realize that when we talk about things we put on a pedestal, things we make important

is we create resistance around it and we block it from coming into our life.

There was a huge book that came out called The Settle Art of Not Giving A Fuck.

That was a really great book by a guy named Mark Manson and I'll talk about that in a minute

when I get into the episode.

But it was a phenomenon, best-seller, book and basically the idea is the less you care

the better.

It doesn't mean just care in general, like you don't care about your family and stuff

like that.

What it really means is the more detached from the outcome you are, the more power you

have and it's really the key to experiencing whatever you want in your life.

If you put money on a pedestal, if you put love on a pedestal, you're creating resistance

and you're blocking it from coming into your life.

The key is understanding the vibration of not giving a shit.

When you understand that vibration, your whole entire life will change.

I used to really care about significance, what people thought about me and had that perspective

and guess what?

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