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The Suzanne Venker Show

Ep. 187: How can I get my husband to see the significance of my staying home?

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9650 Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Have you (or has someone you know) had to convince your husband to live on less so you can stay home with the baby? If so, you’re in good company.


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0:00.0

From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.

0:21.4

Join us here every week as we challenge the culture's hugely flawed narratives about men,

0:27.0

women, sex, and love.

0:29.1

From coast to coast and from around the world, thank you for joining us.

0:34.2

So I'm going to read a comment from the private Facebook page for the Suzanne Venker Show,

0:40.6

which if any of you want to join that page, the link is below.

0:47.3

My husband and I got married in February 2022 with a plan of five years for me to transition to being a stay-at-home mom.

0:54.9

Well, we had our son in August and I have been practically begging to stay home with him and

0:58.8

cut our five-year goals short. My husband is strongly against it and still wants two to three more

1:04.2

years of my income. How do you get your husband to see the value in motherhood and caring for

1:10.1

your own children? He is willing to see the value in motherhood and caring for your own children?

1:18.4

He is willing to assess the situation, but he wants to put as much savings away as possible.

1:27.8

So I can't tell you how many emails I receive and social media comments I read from wives who are desperate for advice about how to get their husbands to understand the significance of motherhood and why sacrificing on the financial

1:34.1

front to actually raise their children as opposed to just having children is not only worth it,

1:41.4

but the right thing to do.

1:44.7

The issue for couples today isn't actually just money, even though it's up there.

1:51.2

It's number one, probably.

1:52.7

It's a huge factor, and I'm going to focus on that.

1:54.6

But what is also true is that women and men have been groomed to create lives that work

2:00.5

very well when there are no children

2:02.8

in the picture, but that essentially implode once children come along.

2:09.5

Another way of saying that really is that young people who want to get married and have kids

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