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10 Things To Tell You

Ep 186: College Roommates, Marriage Pacts, and Overdue Apologies (A Secret Tapes Conversation with my Soul Sister Lindsay Lawler)

10 Things To Tell You

Laura Tremaine

Society & Culture, Unknown, Personal Journals

4.7930 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2023

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

This episode is for anyone who has (or wants) a Soul Sister. In my book about friendship THE LIFE COUNCIL: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs, I write about my freshman college roommate and longtime LA roommate Lindsay Lawler. In the book, and in my life, Lindsay occupies the seat on my my life council that I call the SOUL SISTER. And in this conversation you’re going to see why. We have been connected spiritually and logistically and our lives have been intertwined since we were 18 years old. In this episode, Lindsay and I talk about living in the dorms together, living in the Hollywood hills together, the ways we (accidentally) broke one another's hearts, and the ways we light each other up. Our bond and this conversation is a special one. But the BIG reason I wanted to share this Secret Tapes conversation with Lindsay with you right now is that Lindsay is a singer and songwriter based in nashville and her latest album comes out this week! It’s called Peaches Holyoke and the first single Trying To Get Back To Texas is available on all streaming platforms now. This is Lindsay’s first full length album in 8 years, it features 13 tracks, and you might also hear that new single Trying To Get Back To Texas spinning on OUTLAW COUNTRY on Sirius XM Channel 62. I love Lindsay, I love her music, and after listening to this excerpt of our Secret Tapes conversation about our deep friendship for over 25 years, i think you will love her too. FULL SHOW NOTES ARE HERE MENTIONED in this episode: Ep 28: Motherhood Through Adoption with Lindsay Lawler Ep 164: Are We Friends Or Not? (A Secret Tapes Conversation with Business Besties Kendra Adachi, Jamie Golden, and Bri McKoy) Ep 176: The Mentor (A Secret Tapes Conversation with Cyndi Finkle) SPONSORS: HelloFresh // Go to HelloFresh.com/50YOU for 50% off plus 15% off the next two months SUBSCRIBE to 10 Things To Tell You so you never miss an episode! CLICK HERE for episode show notes FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Instagram FOLLOW @10ThingsToTellYou on Facebook JOIN the 10 Things To Tell You Connection Group SIGN UP for episode emails, links, and show notes JOIN the Secret Stuff Patreon BUY THE BOOK: Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura Tremaine BUY THE BOOK: The Life Council: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs by Laura Tremaine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Laura Tremaine and I have 10 things to tell you and you have 10 things to tell you.

0:12.5

And you have 10 things to tell.

0:15.9

This show is about connection with each other

0:18.7

and with ourselves.

0:20.1

And the hope is that the things we talk about here will be fuel for better conversations and a personal awareness.

0:26.4

Each episode has a prompt or a topic that I want you to take to your journal, text to a friend,

0:31.9

or share on social media using the hashtag 10

0:34.9

things to tell you. This is a show about digging deeper and sharing our

0:39.4

stuff. I'll go first. In my book about friendship called The Life Council 10 Friends

0:46.2

Every Woman Needs I write about my freshman college roommate and my long time

0:51.1

LA roommate Lindsay Lawler In the book and in my life, Lindsay occupies the seat on my life council that I call the soul sister. And in this conversation, you're going to see why. We've been connected

1:05.5

spiritually and logistically and our lives have been intertwined since we were

1:11.5

18 years old.

1:13.4

Lindsay and I had this conversation that you're about to hear as part of my secret

1:17.3

tapes podcast series.

1:19.2

That's a group of episodes that I made with my real life friends that I write about in the Life Council.

1:25.2

The secret tapes, interviews, they were created as a book pre-order bonus, but I've been releasing

1:31.5

some of the excerpts of these conversations here on the show because they're just so good.

1:38.0

You might have already heard episode 164 with my

1:45.0

before, besties. You might have heard episode 176

1:46.0

with my mentor, Cindy,

1:48.0

which brings me to today

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