What's up you guys? Welcome back to the pod. Happy Friday. Hope you all had a good week. Thank you all for being so nice to me about my mental breakdown this week. I'm still in it but they say misery loves

company and it was at least comforting to hear that I'm not happy any of you are

also going through Wobbly's right now, but it sure does feel a little bit better knowing that other people are going through it too and that we're all in it together.

So thank you for that. I think it's just like the end of year. It's just burnout and exhaustion and just a lot going on and I feel very bad at my job sometimes and I really don't want you guys to be like no you're a good influenceencer or whatever but I just I I'm sure many of you can

relate sometimes I'm just like I'm not doing enough and I feel like I'm behind in my

career and I alluded to this the other week but I feel with everyone but maybe with my job and certain jobs in particular it's like you just need more and more hits to feel okay.

Like it's very hard for me not to feel like I'm working on a big project.

I just feel like I'm not achieving enough

and it makes me feel bad about myself

and that gives me anxiety and then just spirals

into a whole bunch of other shit.

But anyway, that's not what this episode is about.

Today's episode is about how not to get bitter because you know what? It is holiday party season.

It is going home to see the family season.

This is an episode for my single girls, gays and

they's. Straight men, this one is not for you, I'm sorry, although I am thrilled

that so many straight men listen to our episode for the boys and thinking about doing a part

too already because apparently it was a success so I love that. Okay so why do I want to talk about not getting bitter?

Because, okay, being 100% real with you,

I'm going to be vague as fuck here

and you'll understand why.

I know a few people who I can tell are bitter. They're my age and they are

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