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How to Get Over Your Ex

Ep. 163 - The quality of my thoughts determines the quality of my life

How to Get Over Your Ex

Dorothy AB Johnson

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7577 Ratings

🗓️ 10 October 2022

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

The quality of my life is a direct reflection of the quality of my thoughts. If my life feels like a hot mess, it's a direct reflection that my mind/brain/thoughts are a hot mess. No matter where you are in the breakup process, no matter how much you know about thought work, no matter how good you are at coaching - you will never be omitted from needing to be reminded that your circumstances do not cause your suffering. 

In today's episode: 

  • Learn one simple technique that will change everything
  • Understand the problem that's holding you back no matter where you are in your breakup or dating journey
  • Become the one who's in control of your experience

Transcript

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0:00.0

You were listening to How to Get Over Your Ex episode number 163.

0:05.2

The quality of my thoughts determines the quality of my life.

0:18.9

Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time.

0:25.1

I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy.

0:27.3

Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy.

0:33.1

Hello, beautiful Bravehearts.

0:35.0

How is everyone doing?

0:36.8

I am so excited to sit down and chat with you.

0:40.6

I have a really fun episode today and it's not just directed towards breakups. Today I really

0:46.9

just wanted to take a moment and talk about something that's a little bit more general. It

0:52.2

obviously still applies to breakups.

0:54.5

It applies to dating.

0:56.2

So no matter where you are in your breakup journey, this will still be super helpful.

1:01.3

But just know that it's a more, it's more of a general topic.

1:04.7

I'm not addressing like a thought, a specific thought error in a breakup.

1:09.4

It really applies to all thought errors.

1:11.3

So I have been learning a lot. This is just some insight into my life. I've been learning a lot

1:18.6

of new things this year. I set out this year as saying it was going to be my fairy tale year.

1:25.3

And I think when I said that, I had an idea as to what a fairy tale is.

1:29.9

And now it's painting a very different picture in terms of what I thought a fairy tale was

1:36.9

to actually what it is.

1:38.3

And it's really funny because when you think of a fairy tale, there's a lot of ups and downs.

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