Ep 159 The 80/80 Marriage

Marriage Therapy Radio

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Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

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🗓️ 13 April 2021

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Zach and Laura interview Nate and Kaley Klemp about their new book The 80/80 Marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I'm looking for a mom friend that wants to talk about motherhood, parenting, mental health, marriage, friendships, and more.
0:06.4	Unfiltered, of course.
0:07.9	A mom friend that wants to feel less alone in all of her seasons of life.
0:12.3	If this is you, let's be friends.
0:13.9	Come on over and listen to Mama Knows wherever you get your podcast.
0:22.3	Hey, everybody. Thank you for listening to Marriage Therapy Radio. I'm Zach. I'm here with
0:25.2	Laura. Today we're here with Nate Clemp and Kaylee Klim, and they are sharing with us about
0:29.0	their book, The 80-80 Marriage. I want to say two things. First of all, there are a lot of good
0:32.5	books out there about marriage. This one's great, and I think you ought to buy it. It is actionable, it's practical,
0:39.2	but mostly it's honest. I love it when couples, people give us a look behind the curtain,
0:43.6	and these two do it in a way that is really going to be of help to you and your relationship.
0:48.2	So do check it out. The second thing I want to say is that if you do buy it, please visit
0:52.6	Marriage Therapy Radio.com. We have a brand new bookstore there. We did that thing with Amazon is that if you do buy it, please visit Marriottrapyradio.com. We have a brand new bookstore
0:55.1	there. We did that thing with Amazon where if you buy the book using our link, we get a little
1:00.6	bit of a kickback, which would be awesome. We'd be grateful for that. But regardless, I think you
1:04.6	should pick it up no matter what. And if you're not convinced, check out our talk with Nate and Kaylee Clem. It's a very cool conversation. Stick around.
1:12.8	So tell us about the book itself.
1:14.8	The book is the 80-80 marriage.
1:24.4	And the big idea behind the book is in the modern context, there are two really important shifts that we need to make as couples.
1:30.3	The first is our mindset shift. So our default set point, if you will, in today's sort of marriage place is about 50-50 fairness. Making sure that I'm doing my fair share,
1:37.2	you're doing your fair share. Hey, we're equals now. And so it leads to a lot of mindset of
1:41.3	scorekeeping. And in 80-80, the shift is out of that,
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