Good morning, everyone. Welcome back to the pod. Obviously today is 9.11 and I wanted to

just take a minute to remember all the lives lost. Also, I think about this message every year,

so I just wanted to read it to you. Jules, this is Brian. Listen, I'm on an airplane that's been hijacked.

If things don't go well and it's not looking good, I just want you to know I absolutely love you.

I want you to do good. Go have good times. Same to my parents and everybody and I just totally

love you and I'll see you when you get there. Obviously, that is Brian Sweeney's last voicemail

to his wife. I know it's gut wrenching and there's a million stories like that from 9.11 but that one

always just really, really just touches my heart and I just want you all to tell someone you love

them today. Be grateful for this beautiful life that we have being alive and getting to love

the people that we love. So we will never forget the lives lost.

So today, I want to talk about dating apps because I sometimes feel as though I'm an anthropologist

because I am always listening to you guys. I have an open line of communication to hundreds of

thousands as crazy as that sounds of young women and all women, but a lot of young women who are,

because I think I said that because I consider everybody young. When you guys write me and you're

like, I think I'm your oldest follower. I'm 55. I'm like, no, you're still young and I really do

feel that way. So anyway, I have this open line of communication to hundreds of thousands of

women of all ages and I get to hear what's on your mind. And that is actually one of my favorite parts

of my job is that I really know like what's bugging you guys, what's urking you, what's stressing you,

ow, what's making you happy, et cetera. And over the past, I would say two months, there's been a

swell in complete irritation around dating apps, frustration, feeling like there's so much bad

behavior and just so frustrated. And this happened once before actually, I mean, I don't think

anybody in the past couple of years has been like, oh, they're working great. Like I got this,

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