Ep. 152 AMA with Serena F*cking Kerrigan on Dating App Prompts, Perfecting Banter, and Making Yourself Unavailable

Recovering From Reality

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🗓️ 18 July 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Today’s episode is icon, influencer, and confidence queen Serena Fucking Kerrigan — otherwise known as SFK. After graduating from Duke University, Serena was hired as a producer at Refinery29. In February 2020, she quit her job to launch her own company that would empower women to live their lives unapologetically and authentically. Since then, she has hosted the first ever Instagram Live reality show, Let’s Fucking Date, launched a hugely successful line of card games, and amassed a huge following on social media—bringing her followers along on her dating escapades and adventures, all for the plot!(bio adapted from letsfuckingdate.com) In this episode, we discuss how Serena manifested her dream life, exactly how you should be approaching dating apps (prompts, banter, getting on the first date, etc), hyping yourself up, making yourself unavailable at the beginning of a relationship, leaning into your devine feminine when dating, and so much more! We answer so many of your questions and give advice on everything from confidence to dating to boundaries and more!

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:07.5	Hey, this is Alexis Haines and welcome to Recovering from Reality,
0:11.6	where I illuminate the messy and magical path of coming home to yourself.
0:16.1	Whether you're on the road to recovery, seeking self-care techniques for surviving the
0:20.5	capitalist machine, or just need a moment to remember that you're not alone in your loneliness,
0:26.2	we're serving up the ultimate truth. Your challenges don't define you, how you deal with them does.
0:33.0	So are you ready to recover from reality?
0:38.1	Prizes don't chase winners, so the idea is that you are a prize and the winner comes to
0:44.0	grab the prize. It's not vice versa. So like you need to be sitting there in your light shining
0:50.3	like the fucking top of the prize for building and they need to be working for you. I mean,
0:54.9	I get con situations I'm sure there were a lot that you were asked for Q&A.
0:59.2	You know, it's like this guy goes to me, show your reach out to him. No.
1:03.4	You know, it's like I think from the get and I have so many friends in released,
1:07.6	serious relationships, how towards marriage and obviously this is like somewhat,
1:11.4	it's become my profession. So I do tons of research and I just also just ask a lot of questions.
1:16.4	Any healthy relationship from the get, it starts like that from the beginning.
1:21.6	There's no question about how much they feel about you. If you're confused, they don't like you.
1:26.2	It's that simple and we over complicate it because if we just admit, hey, they just don't like us so
1:31.4	much, that suddenly is a confirmation about maybe how we feel about ourselves. And so just be
1:36.2	like, they don't like us that much and that's okay.
1:41.4	That was a quick clip from this week's episode with our internet besties, Serena Kerrigan.
1:46.1	Serena gained popularity through her creation of the first ever Instagram live reality show.
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