Ep. 15 - Stop wasting your wants
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 6 January 2020
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
Why are we focused on him not giving you what you want? This isn't about him, it's about YOU. Out of all the things we could be wanting and creating in our life why are we focused on changing other people? Why is this a problem and what can we do to overcome our "wants"?
In this episode:
- What does wasting our wants mean?
- 3 biggest problems about "wanting"
- How to overcome wanting
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex, episode number 15. |
| 0:03.7 | Stop wasting your wants. |
| 0:17.6 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:21.9 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. |
| 0:24.0 | Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:29.3 | All right, my brave hearts. |
| 0:31.5 | I'm about to dish out some tough love, so just as a warning. |
| 0:35.7 | And really, it's only because i used to be the queen like literally |
| 0:40.2 | the queen of saying i want um when i was in a relationship it was i just want him to make me a priority |
| 0:48.1 | i want him to truly just like be adore me and be 100% in love with me i want him to spend time with me i want him to want to be adore me and be 100% in love with me. I want him to spend time with me. I want |
| 0:56.0 | him to want to be with me. And after the relationship was done, those kind of changed into I wanted |
| 1:03.2 | him to break up with me differently. I wanted him to be honest. I wanted him to tell me sooner. |
| 1:09.1 | I wanted him to have a conversation with me. And even as I say |
| 1:13.0 | all of that there, like in this episode here to you now today right now, doesn't it feel |
| 1:18.7 | graspy? Like so, so graspy. So today, that's what we're talking about. We are talking about |
| 1:26.2 | wasting your wants. i have so many clients |
| 1:28.9 | come to me saying i want him to be just straightforward with me or i wanted him to be straightforward |
| 1:35.1 | with me or i want him to just tell me the truth i want him to give me closure i want him to message me |
| 1:40.8 | back i just wanted him to choose me and point blank girl that is not true you don't want him to message me back, I just wanted him to choose me. And point blank, girl, that is not true. |
| 1:46.5 | You don't want him to choose you when he doesn't want to choose you. You don't want him to be |
| 1:51.7 | straightforward with you, even when he doesn't want to be straightforward with you, even if he did, |
| 1:56.0 | you wouldn't be happy. You most likely don't want him to be like, oh, hey, I just don't like you, right? |
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