What's up everybody? This is the Betray, the addicted, and the expert. My name is Brannon and I am the expert.

And I'm Ashland and I was the portrayed.

And I'm Kobe, the recovering addict.

What you're gonna get is three unique perspectives on recovery

and tools for hope and healing.

All right guys, let's talk about dating.

And so, you know, we talk about heavy stuff all the time.

We thought we'd talk about fun stuff, but dating with betrayal trauma and addiction sometimes can be hard and isn't that fun.

So let's talk about you know making it fun and what the point of it is and how to do it and all of those things. So you guys, how often do you go out?

We started going out this year, so it's taking us consistently, every single week.

We do a day date when the kids are at school, so we don't have to pay for a babysitter.

Yeah, that is true. And often we don't have to pay for a babysitter. Yeah, that is true.

And often we don't even spend money on that date.

It's whatever.

You know, we were going skiing during the winter, during that time,

so it was already paid for.

Or we were, now we go do a spiritual date.

And then we also do date night can be our softball games on Friday nights and then we...

So that means we're actually doing a lot.

And then we were going out on Saturday nights.

We just stopped that two weeks ago.

Yeah, we've actually used a local Joybar Comedy Club to, as the date night.

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