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The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Ep. 130: Dating Anxiety

The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Natalie Lue

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9867 Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2019

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

A challenge that often presents itself while dating is the struggle to stay hopeful and grounded while pursuing our need or desire for a relationship. Natalie talks about the key sources of anxiety and why, ultimately, 'efforting' isn't going to control (or change) the time frame or what prospective partners do so we might as well get on with the business of being us and living.

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I'm Natalie Lou and you're listening to the baggage reclaim sessions.

0:07.0

Hello!

0:09.0

Before I dive into today's topic I want to mention that I am going to be in New York from March 15, that's 2019 for anybody who's listening far ahead in the future until Monday the

0:26.1

18th. I'm not going for work I am going to watch a friend take part in the New York Half Marathon. Now for a little

0:37.5

bit of backstory her 40th was about four or five years ago and our other friend who works a Virgin Atlantic at the time,

0:45.9

I think we'd been on a drunken night out and we started planning a 40th birthday trip to New York,

0:51.2

but it didn't actually happen and I can't remember why.

0:54.3

And then a few months ago when our friend announced that she was running in this half

1:00.4

marathon in New York, my friend that works a virgin,

1:03.2

wise-crat-all, we'll come and watch you.

1:05.6

And she was like, yeah, and so that's exactly what we're gonna do.

1:10.1

And so we're heading out, we'll be there for, yeah, three nights.

1:13.8

Now at some point during that weekend, I have decided that I am going to do a quick meet up with you guys because I know if I say that I'm in New York again

1:26.8

and I don't do something to meet up and hang out even just for an hour, I'm like going to get a whole

1:33.5

order messages and I had so much fun when I did it in San Francisco a few months ago and

1:37.4

I'd love to do it again. All that said I have not worked out where to meet up yet. So if any of you have any

1:48.4

suggestions about a good spot to meet up in, you know somewhere that's as good for a

1:52.4

hangout for you know, somewhere that's as good for a hangout for, you know, tea, coffees, you know, for about an hour, hour and a half, then please drop me an email, podcast at baggage reclaim.com or

2:02.8

dend me on Instagram at Natalu or one of my other socials which will be in the show

2:08.0

notes at baggage reclaim.co. UK forward slash 130. I will once I have figured out where and when to meet up I will

2:20.0

list it on my Instagram on Facebook and also on the show notes as well as at baggage

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reclaim.co. UK forward slash events. All right. All that done, let's move on to today's topic. So several

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