I've seen people who've had an affair who were very ambiguous and planning on leaving.

They were totally burned out.

And they were having an affair because they were done with the marriage and pretty much ready to go.

It was kind of an exit.

Yeah, they were exiting the marriage.

But one of the reasons they stayed in the marriage was because they had kids.

But there was no emotional connection.

And what helped them get the emotional connection back is when they saw the one that they had hurt, saw how

much they really loved them, and wanted to make it work.

You're listening to Healing Broken Trust podcast with Brad and Morgan Robinson, where we talk about

healing from affairs, infidelity, trust, and cheating in your relationship from the perspective

of a professional marriage therapist and a fair recovery expert.

If you're wanting to heal your marriage, this is the podcast for you.

And we're on episode number 13 and we're talking about factors

that influence ambiguity or ambiguous feelings. And we're going to talk from the perspective

or the question of what keeps me feeling so confused. Now this is an important episode,

but I want you to also know that you really need to go and listen to episode 12.

That's really talking about should I stay or should I go.

So download episode 12, and it's a good idea to listen to episode 12 before you listen to episode 13, which is the one we're about to play.

So do that.

Make sure to listen to episode 12 and then come and listen

to episode 13. And I want you also to remember that you have free resources waiting for you

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