Ep 13 Betrayal, Grief, & Why No One Is Above the Program
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 4 June 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we chat:
The grief and utter SHOCK that comes when relationships and friendships you thought would last... forever end. In this episode, we chat how remembering that no one is above the program might actually take you from difficulty accepting what happened to a calm peace and ability to finally move on with strength and dignity.
What you'll learn in this episode:
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- What "no one is above the program" when it comes to betrayal in relationships means and how it might actually help you process the betrayal and grief.
- Why betrayal isn't as personal as you think it is (even though it feels like it was custom-made just for you, I know!)
- The liberation that comes from accepting things as THEY ARE not as you wish them to be and... how to get there.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to the Clear Not Louder podcast. My name is Beatrice and I'm your host. |
| 0:06.6 | And if you're new here, welcome to the podcast where the whimsy girls learn how to steward, sharpen, and wields their voice and find delight in the dimensionality of their voice. |
| 0:19.2 | And self-expression, welcome to clear or not louder. |
| 0:23.1 | Let's get into today's episode. |
| 0:25.3 | Also first, before we dive in, |
| 0:27.2 | I've wanted to be known that it's completely dark |
| 0:30.6 | in the room that I'm sitting in, windows drawn, |
| 0:33.7 | and it's still light outside. |
| 0:35.7 | I have a dim light on and candles. I don't know what it is. |
| 0:41.1 | I don't know if it's being in your 30s. I feel like I need an atmosphere and a mood at all times. |
| 0:47.6 | I have to set the stage for myself. I was never like this in my 20s. Can someone please DM me and |
| 0:53.0 | confirm that this is not just a beatrice thing. |
| 0:57.1 | Yesterday I was taking a shower and I listened or I played time to say goodbye by Andrea Boccelli. |
| 1:05.0 | I said to myself and jazz music, I said to myself, who is she becoming? I don't know, but I love it. |
| 1:12.1 | I love it. |
| 1:12.8 | It's like I need the atmosphere to be correct. |
| 1:15.6 | So that was a little lore. |
| 1:17.9 | Now let's get into today's episode. |
| 1:19.9 | Okay, let's chat betrayal and why no one is above the program. |
| 1:24.8 | That phrase, no one is above the program, is something I tell myself at least, |
| 1:30.9 | at least on a weekly basis. And if it's your first time hearing that phrase, it basically means |
| 1:36.6 | you're not the exception to the rulemate. You're not the exception to the rule. And don't worry, |
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