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10 Things To Tell You

Ep 129: What was the biggest year of your life? (A conversation with my roommate from 2001)

10 Things To Tell You

Laura Tremaine

Society & Culture, Unknown, Personal Journals

4.7930 Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2021

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Exactly 20 years ago, I was in the middle of the biggest year of my life. I graduated college, moved to Los Angeles, was grieving a devastating heartbreak, and the country was weeks away from the tragedy of 9/11. In this episode, I am asking YOU to think about the biggest year of your life. The answer may not be so obvious from the outside; it may not be the year you moved or married or had a baby or changed careers. The biggest year of your life may be full of loss or transformation, or both. Twenty years ago in 2001, I moved across the country with someone I barely knew. We rented an apartment together, figured out Los Angeles together, made friends together, and, eventually, worked on jackass the movie together (something that changed both of our lives). This is the first time I've ever shared a public conversation with my old friend and roommate Dr. Megan, even though I've been talking and writing about our time together for two decades now. * Mentioned in this episode: Ep 77: What's Your BIG Story? FULL SHOW NOTES HERE * SPONSORS: Ritual. Go to Ritual.com/10Things for 10% off Noom. Go to Noom.com/10Things for your trial today * Thank you for listening to 10 Things To Tell You! Follow @10ThingsToTellYou on IG Follow @10ThingsToTellYou on FB Follow @laura.tremaine on IG Follow @mslauratremaine on FB Sign Up for episode emails Join the 10 Things To Tell You Connection Group Listen to the SECRET STUFF Buy Share Your Stuff. I'll Go First. by Laura Tremaine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

And the I'm Laura Tremaine and I have 10 things to tell you and you have 10 things to tell.

0:28.0

This show is about connection with each other and with ourselves.

0:33.0

And the hope is that the things we talk about here will be fuel for better conversations and a personal awareness.

0:40.0

This is an interactive podcast.

0:44.0

Each episode has a prompt and a topic that I want you to take to your journal, text to your best friend,

0:50.4

or answer on social media using the hashtag 10 things to tell you.

0:55.0

This is a show about digging deeper and sharing our stuff.

0:59.0

I'll go first.

1:02.0

This week, last year, first.

1:03.0

This week, last year, I released one of my very favorite episodes of this podcast,

1:10.0

episode 77, What your big story and in that episode I'm asking you to think about

1:19.2

what is the big story of your life. We all have one, one kind of main narrative. One thing that really

1:30.8

defines a before and an after.

1:34.0

It might not be a single event.

1:37.0

In fact, it's often probably not.

1:39.0

It's like a journey, if you will. And for some of us our big story happened in our childhood

1:47.5

but it's really something that defines who we are or something that we point back to a lot.

1:54.9

For some of us, we have a big story

1:57.6

because we all already have one,

1:59.5

but maybe we're waiting on a bigger story. We think our biggest story hasn't happened yet.

2:06.4

And that might be true. You know that about yourself. For some of us, our big

2:11.6

stories aren't even really true, like factually.

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