Ep 123: Is it time to END your relationship?
And She Rises…
Amanda Frances
4.8 • 724 Ratings
🗓️ 9 November 2021
⏱️ 15 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Hello
A month or two ago, I was teaching inside of my Turning Sh*t into Gold program.
(Sidenote: TSIG is something of a best-kept secret inside of my work. It's magical and not as well known as it... will be.)
As I was teaching, someone asked me:
How do I know if it's time to end my relationship? I've been asking for signs. And I'm not sure what to do.
I gave them my best advice.
The thing is this: We are powerful creators. Inside of relationships, outside of relationship and in the various scenarios and containers of our lives, we are capable of turning shit into gold.
But sometimes, we don't want to.
Sometimes, we feel we shouldn't. Sometimes, we know that that would not be what is best, right or most healthy for us.
Sometimes, we need to leave.
In today's video and podcast episode, I share, how I decided it was time to end a seven-year relationship I was in, what the clues were for me, and how I ultimately knew what to do.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to the Anne She Rises, The Fuck Up, the podcast. I am your host, Amanda Francis, |
| 0:09.8 | and this is episode 123, 123 episodes in a little over two years. It's definitely not a weekly podcast. Sometimes it's a monthly podcast, |
| 0:24.5 | but nevertheless, we have gotten to 123 episodes. And I just want to thank you for tuning in, |
| 0:33.6 | for being on this journey with me, for marathon listening, and for enjoying this thing I created |
| 0:41.8 | you. So today's episode is a little segment from a course I have called Turning Shit into |
| 0:50.2 | Gold. While I was recording a new module inside of turning shit into gold a couple months ago, |
| 0:57.5 | someone asked me the question, how do I know if it's time to end my relationship? I'm asking for |
| 1:05.1 | signs. I'm confused time being guided and directed. I don't know what to do. Now, I liked this question |
| 1:14.0 | because I've been there. I've so been there. I was in a seven-year relationship and it was good. |
| 1:20.9 | It was good. It was good. It was good enough. We were happy. Nothing was wrong. My therapist, my |
| 1:26.3 | psychic, everyone could totally see me being happy with |
| 1:31.1 | this guy forever. Not forever. They could totally see me choosing to get married and have babies |
| 1:37.6 | with this person and live a very happy life. I don't know if anyone ever said forever to me. |
| 1:44.6 | But the thing was, it never sat right with me to be with him. |
| 1:51.4 | It never settled well inside my soul. |
| 1:55.5 | I always felt like I was fighting myself constantly. I always felt like I was questioning, wondering. |
| 2:04.4 | I couldn't get into this place of, no, this is it. No, I choose you. And I choose you, maybe not |
| 2:12.7 | forever because we don't always know, but I choose you with my whole heart happily and openly and willingly and |
| 2:19.0 | lovingly. I can put myself into this and choose to do this. Everything in me was constantly like, |
| 2:25.3 | nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, something in me was always fighting, staying in that, |
| 2:31.0 | staying in that relationship. So as you'll hear in a moment, the first question I ask her is, |
| 2:37.9 | what do you want? What do you really want? Is there something you're trying to convince yourself of? |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Amanda Frances, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Amanda Frances and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.