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and this is the round and fishing, yeah it does feel like weird I'm like wait it's not Tuesday what's happening?

this is my I've been doing my sundays have been my my get my writing done day it's the only day the week when I can actually do anything but today it was all messed up I had

back to back bridal showers this weekend.

really? yeah to this season yeah they just happened to be on the on the same weekend so one yesterday in Brooklyn and one today is a lot of fun but I did over did it on the champagne just a little bit

just a little bit. I can't even I can't even overdo even like a sick my body is so I don't drink at all so I can smell alcohol in the on the floor.

I just love a nice bubbly on a Sunday okay with a little little post egg it was quite nice.

I came from my my my niece's first birthday and my dad was like no alcohol beverages my daddy it's a when you were birthday party.

listen I've been to some lit one year old birthday party so some some parents know how to party there was there was there a bouncy castle what was the I feel like birthday parties are so well now.

we had it at our we have a zoo a cute little zoo called turtle by zoo and like everything was animal themed and then afterwards we took a little tour of the zoo so I was just a new work didn't know that no well no it's actually West Orange which is like maybe like two two towns over.

okay yeah but it's really cute and I was like oh this is cute little I mean of course she cared nothing for it because you know she's one.

but yeah it was it was fun because I was like oh this is nice because sometimes people go really really super big for first birthday and I feel like I mean who knows when I have a baby.

if like what I'm going to do but I feel like I'm going to be like I'm come to the house we're cutting cake and there'll be some pizza.

it's a lot of pressure it's not just like the financial like that the it cost a lot of money to just throw a party but then I've been to a first birthday party that felt more like a what bridal shower where there were like centerpieces and.

buffet and open bar and I've been to and then there's the ones where it's not just a party itself but you have to they they have first birthday photoshoots now.

where no they don't yeah no you haven't seen these I must have like half a dozen cards that I get in the mail from first birthday photoshoots yeah you like you pay a photographer and you go to a studio and you

put them in a ridiculous outfit and then they there's like the cake smash video where you actually like prepare like the photographer includes a cake in it and it's just photos of the baby like smashing the cake apart and then just like sometimes crying or whatever yeah it's the first I like how does how much is this cost

my dad would just take some pictures on his camera you know at the most well you're that you that's also really good for that.

you know he had nice camera but I mean it's just it's and you know it's you know if that's your thing that's totally fine that's how you want to capture your child's but it just feels like everyone's doing it now and more like you know once that becomes the trend then like you don't want to be that one I guess you that it's like that pressure that social pressure to have that fantastic first birthday cake smash photo and all that.

So what's your name so just call her fancy girl but one of my friends when her son turned one she had like a local made and it was like monograms on his cupcakes it was now she's like yeah I might have put on with her now he's three now but she's like oh this is a logo it was his first middle and last initial it was team to damn much I was like girl she's like I look back at an out meanwhile like he he just turned three and like literally she's like I love that.

And like literally she's a comes to the house with kind of cake and there'll be some pizza.

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