Ep. 117: Love Languages?
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 23 November 2018
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Natalie revisits the topic of needs, delving into why we all give and feel love differently and so we can't assume that people will know what we need or that they'll be "just like us". She also shares what she learned from finally getting around to reading The 5 Love Languages, as well as why it's essential to be mindful of a need that drives us far more than any others.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Natalie Lou and you're listening to the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:10.0 | Hello, how are you all doing? |
| 0:12.0 | I know many of my American listeners in the throes of potentially |
| 0:19.2 | recovering from their Thanksgiving Day celebrations. I hope you all had good ones. |
| 0:23.9 | What are we talking about today? |
| 0:27.6 | Well, I spend a lot of time talking |
| 0:32.2 | with clients, with students in my courses and you know we have |
| 0:36.6 | readers or listeners that I correspond with talking about needs. Every human |
| 0:41.9 | wants to be seen so we want to be known and understood for who we are. |
| 0:49.0 | We have needs, and when these aren't met, we feel unloved, neglected and, yes, unseen. |
| 0:56.9 | Our emotional needs are not met. |
| 0:59.9 | We are not emotionally fulfilled. |
| 1:03.2 | And what I specifically want to talk about |
| 1:06.2 | on this topic of needs, which, you know, |
| 1:08.2 | this topic of needs does come up really |
| 1:10.0 | throughout all of the episodes and on the blog as well is about why we end up with |
| 1:19.5 | misunderstandings friction tension around our needs and how why we end up basically |
| 1:26.2 | communicating across purposes and as part of that I want to delve into the topic of something that I read about for the first time a couple of months ago, the five love languages. |
| 1:41.0 | And these five love languages are the topic of a book of the same name. |
| 1:46.5 | This book was written I think nearly 23 almost 24 years ago by a guy called Gary Chapman. |
| 1:57.0 | He was a pastor, a marriage, a counselor, marriage therapist and he would have people coming into, you know, his sessions all the time |
| 2:02.3 | and they would be despairing of their partners or their |
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