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Recovering From Reality

Ep. 115 Our Open Marriage with Evan Haines

Recovering From Reality

Dear Media, Alexis Haines

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4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2021

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

In this week's episode of Recovering From Reality, I am joined by my wonderful partner, Evan Haines. We take a deep dive into our relationships and how we came to the decision to open up our marriage after 10 years of monogamy. We are answering your questions from the ask me anything I posted a few weeks ago and we cover a range of topics like how did we decide to become ethically non-monogamous, how we told our children, what our sex life looks like now and how we handle feelings of jealousy.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:07.5

Hey, this is Alexis Haines and welcome to Recovering from Reality,

0:11.6

where I illuminate the messy and magical path of coming home to yourself.

0:16.1

Whether you're on the road to recovery, seeking self-care techniques for surviving the

0:20.5

capitalist machine, or just need a moment to remember that you're not alone in your loneliness,

0:26.2

we're serving up the ultimate truth. Your challenges don't define you, how you deal with them does.

0:33.0

So are you ready to recover from reality?

0:39.4

You can program a kid to do almost anything, unfortunately. So I think it's our job to train

0:45.5

our kids to stand up for what's right, to train our kids to think outside of the post.

0:50.0

Think outside the box and really enter a future and create the kind of future where there is

0:54.1

all this kind of diversity and where there are all these options which really only create joy

1:00.4

and pleasure and really if it's done properly, don't hurt anybody.

1:06.9

That was a quick clip from this week's episode with my amazing partner Evan Haines. I know you guys

1:13.1

have been looking forward to this episode. We're diving into how we got to this place of being

1:20.9

in an open marriage. I know for many who are watching the unfolding online over the last couple

1:27.1

months, it might have seemed like it was a quick spur of the moment decision, but this is actually

1:33.4

something that we've been talking about for a while now. I didn't ask me anything on my Instagram

1:41.2

stories and you guys came in with the tough questions and Evan and I addressed them all. Everything

1:48.9

from what our sex life is like today to how we decide to have this conversation with our kids.

1:56.1

We are covering it all. And then coming up on next week's episode, we have my friend Angel joining

2:05.6

us. She's a relationship, sex and love coach. That episode is so insightful. I know you guys are

2:12.9

going to have major takeaways from that. And then the following week, my girlfriend Chris is coming

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