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So about the middle of the last last year Kelly went on vacation. I don't want to make everybody

too envious, but she did go to Hawaii. And when she came back, the first thing out of her mouth

was we have to have Meg Jay on the show.

So Kelly was on the beach, drinking a cocktail, reading the defining decade, why your 20s matter and how to make the most of them now by Dr. Meg Jay, who is a clinical psychologist, a narrative non-fiction writer, and in her books she weaves the latest research

with what she hears every day, which are the behind closed doors stories of real people.

Kelly came back all jazzed said it revolutionized her take

on work money love and what she wants for her future it has done the same for

millions of other people.

Many of you may have seen Dr. Jay's TED Talk, Y30, is not the new 20.

It has been viewed more than 10 million times. And now she's got a new book called

Super Normal the Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience. Meg thank you so much

for getting on the phone with me, but also with Kelly.

So we have to start with the defining decade and your hugely successful TED Talk.

I'm 53. Kelly is still in her 20s. Why do so many people think 30 is the new 20?

Well if you look at what has happened historically over the last 50 years or so for a variety of reasons,

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