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Hello. Hello friends. Welcome back to the podcast. Today we continue the type 4 section of our relationship pairing series with Enigram Type 4 and 9.

But first I have a few little caveats.

The first one is that I am recording in my car right now

because it's summer, our kid is home, and honestly, I don't have the heart to tell our kid to be quiet so I can record a podcast. I want to let them live their summer life and so I'm recording in the car but it was too hot to not have the air conditioning on so I turn the air on and so if you hear it I I'm sorry, but his life, you know, I'm doing my best.

So that's caveat number one.

Copyright number two is that if you're looking for type four with one through three those happened in

previous sections so the type one pairing happened in the one section and so on

each type is going to get shorter as we go forward because the

pairing will already be covered and we end each section with the same type

pairing so four and four will happen next week at the end of this section.

Now whenever I answer these relationship pairing questions I like to do it in three points, conflict

styles and things you may be unconsciously doing and ways you could positively influence each other.

So let's dive on in.

Type 4 has a reactive response to conflict.

They react strongly to conflict and they need responses from others.

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