I am Sarah Jane Case and this is Eniagram and coffee.

Hello friends, welcome back to the podcast.

Today we kick off the type 4 section of our

relationship hearing series with anyagram type 4 and 5. If you're looking

for type 4 with 1, 2, 3, they have already happened in the previous episodes of the series,

each type will get shorter as we go forward because the pairing will be covered in previous sections and we will

end the four section with the type four and four pairing just to kind of give a lay of the

land now whenever I answer these relationship

pairing questions I like to do it in three points, conflict styles, things you may

be unknowingly doing in your relationship and ways to positively influence each other.

So let's dive in.

Type 4 is a reactive type.

They have a reactive response to conflict.

They tend to react strongly to conflict and need responses from others.

They have an emotional reaction and a strong desire to know where they stand with others.

They look for their emotions to be mirrored. They

seek to be understood and seen. They may be temperamental and self-absorbed in

conflict and they may react dramatically to problems.

Triggers for type 4 are being ignored or slided,

being asked to do something contrary to their values,

or having an event that elicits the fours envy.

In conflict, fours can ask themselves,

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