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Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Enjoying Physical Intimacy Regularly

Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.71.7K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul encourages couples to not go too long without physical intimacy. Jim Daly talks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Mueller on why it matters for a couple to not neglect sex in marriage. Then, Dr. Greg Smalley encourages families to talk about sex in healthy ways.

 

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0:00.0

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0:24.1

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0:26.9

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0:30.9

As a married couple, it is easy to let one important part of your life just kind of be whatever.

0:42.5

It's subject to the winds of change and the demands of life in a schedule that doesn't really make room for it.

0:49.6

And I'm talking about physical intimacy.

0:51.6

Unfortunately, we live in such a busy world where this is just

0:56.2

not an aspect of the relationship that's being enjoyed by couples, and we want to talk about that

1:01.8

today. I'm John Fuller in the studio with Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife, Aaron, and they lead

1:07.0

the Focus Marriage Department. We're going to kick off with a clip featuring Aaron Smalley

1:12.1

and also Sherry Mueller, who discussed why it's important for you to pay attention to physical intimacy

1:19.3

in your relationship. I'm thinking of First Corinthians. I think it's in Chapter 7,

1:25.3

but there's a little warning that we're given by Paul for married

1:30.2

couples not to deprive one another of sexual intimacy. And certainly in taking that break

1:38.1

from sexual intimacy, gear it toward praying and fasting, but don't go too long there and deny one another in case

1:47.9

the enemy should come in and work his havoc within our relationship. That's a paraphrase.

1:54.1

Speak to that, Aaron, because I think, you know, again, this is something that creates such friction

1:59.9

within marriages, within couples. And, you know, I, this is something that creates such friction within marriages, within couples.

2:03.0

And, you know, I think Paul had it right there in terms of the need to understand one another.

2:08.8

It's not abusive.

2:10.0

I know a lot of women that struggle and a lot of men, obviously, that struggle, are going to say,

2:14.4

now you're using the scripture to beat me over the head.

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