You're listening to Be You Unapologetically Podcast with Kyra Carlin.

Learn to love you as you are now and quit waiting on someone else to tell you who you are.

Be you unapologetically.

Good morning and thank you for listening to Be You Unapologetically Podcast.

I am Kyra Carlin.

Every time, every time I say I'm excited, but that's kind of going to go with what I have to say today.

I'm excited to bring you a little bit of behind the scenes what's going on all the time in my life, I think, and maybe you could relate

to the same kind of things. I'm going to talk about setting big, scary, hairy goals and then

not working towards them. Right. So I think a lot of podcasts kind

do the opposite of like, hi, set a big goal and this is how you're going to do it. But if we're

being super honest, you can be told exactly what to do, but somehow, some way you're going to think you can do it better.

You're going to think you can reinvent the wheel that there is going to be a time where you're

going to try it differently and then that's going to be the new way.

And while I'm not saying that's not true, what I am going to say is that a lot of times we can take five minutes. We can take

a month. We could take a week and plan and think of the goals that we want to make. So I like to think

of like the New Year's being, you know, New Year's resolution. You can sit down and you can write

these big goals that you want to achieve for the year. And it's you can sit down and you can write these big goals that you

want to achieve for the year. And it's you're pumped up and you're ready to go and you're going to do

all the things and then Monday happens. And Monday happens and then you're reminded, I don't know

why you thought you were able to reach these goals, like just settle down. Don't make yourself big, make yourself small because that is what you're used to. these goals like just settle down don't make yourself big make yourself small

because that is what you're used to i don't know if that resonates with anybody else but i know for me

that's one of my biggest problems is setting big goals like big intentions making big dreams

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