So one of our experts said, your emergency is not my urgency.

You know, because often they're like now and is there a way we can put boundaries in and give them the space to grow emotionally, but also letting them know there is an empathy we need I am in the car.

It is a Monday podcast.

I am here to talk to you this Monday about emotional outbursts and, well, really not ours, but yes, we we definitely have them too I'm hiding in the car

and it's the only place I can get this done right now but also the emotional outburst of the

teenagers and the tweenagers and the children in our house that sometimes make us feel hostage to

emotions welcome to the Monday podcast really they are snippets of the common parent. We really want to give you guys

an idea of some of the interviews that go on in the common parent and the strategies and the

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homes, your five or three strategies to apply, and the tools you need for your

toolbox immediately, that's really what we're about, is quick hits of information to bring

you a little bit of insight into really deep and huge topics. And I think this one,

especially in emotional intelligence, oh my God, cat speak. This one in emotional intelligence could be like a three-year course,

but unfortunately, as mom's busy parents, we don't have time for a three-year course. So at the

moment, we are doing as much as we can by bringing in experts to give us a few pieces or a few

nuggets of information to help us handle emotions better because

what's happening is we haven't learned how to deal with our own emotions. So we have outbursts.

We get impatient. We get frustrated. And then our kids do the same thing and we get mad at them for it.

And the standards for them are way higher than for ourselves and we don't know what goes

on on their day they come home how's your day fine would you do nothing listen so much happened

so much went down and really it's not their job to share with us everything but it is our job to

unfortunately decode what they may be going through and that's really why we have this podcast and the common parent because we want all of you to have a little bit of information, um, that you are armed with because parenting is a skill. It's a habit. It's a commitment. It is not intuition. We've all been lied to. Just you know, y'all know we've been lied to, right? Like, y'all know we've been lied to? A thousand

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