Email Grab Bag 4 - Rising toleration of bad behavior, from victim to victor, porn ruining the relationship

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.5 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2021

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

I read three emails from people in three different circumstances. The first one is a troubled marriage where the wife doesn't know why she is staying and can't figure out how to make the decision to leave. Segment two is about dealing with the victim mentality and what questions you can ask a chronic complainer in order to get them to do something about what they're complaining about. Segment three is about a wife who discovered her husband watches porn and since then their once happy, amazing marriage is now in shambles with little hope for the future. Lots to talk about in this episode!

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0:00.0	Do you know what the term emotional abuse means?
0:03.6	It is a loaded term.
0:05.0	It is a bucket full of bad behavior in all kinds of subtle manipulation and control.
0:12.2	And it really takes a toll on the person on the receiving end of it.
0:16.0	And I hope that's not you.
0:17.8	But if you want to learn more about it, head over to my other podcast, Love and Abuse
0:21.7	over at loveandabuse.com.
0:24.4	Life presents the toughest challenges.
0:27.0	Every day you are faced with decisions that test your ability to express who you really
0:31.6	want to be in this world.
0:33.2	We're told to keep saying affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you
0:38.0	do when that stuff doesn't work?
0:40.6	Welcome to the overwhelmed brain, where you'll learn to make decisions that are right
0:44.4	for you so that you can create the life you want now.
0:57.0	Hey, this is Paul Coliani and I want to help you increase your emotional intelligence.
1:05.0	Handle toxic situations with grace and ease and give you the tools to show up as your
1:10.7	authentic self.
1:12.2	The show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only.
1:17.2	Well, let's make this episode a grab bag episode where I read as many emails as I can
1:26.6	and answer them as fast as I can.
1:29.0	I think that's fun sometimes.
1:31.1	We don't have to dive so deep in a subject every single time we have this show, but it is
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