Elle & The Paranoid Controlling Abuser - Narcissist Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Domestic Violence, IPV

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 15 August 2022

⏱️ 128 minutes

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Summary

Brandon talks with Elle about her toxic relationship with a paranoid controlling abuser. It’s a story of insecurities, conforming, sexual coercion, responsibility deficit disorder, recognizing patterns, and post separation abuse. Elle fell hard for her partner, quickly became pregnant, and that's when his controlling behavior ramped up for good. Plus they discuss, believing the lies you're told, devaluation, gaslighting, alcoholism, rage, changing manipulation tactics, enabling families, narcissistic mothers, custody, court, hoovering, being a single mom, surviving, people pleasing, walking on eggshells, taking your power back, and much more. Also, we had sound issues for the first 20 minutes, so the sound changes at that mark. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses sexual coercion and physical abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To take a free Enneagram Test, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:25.3	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named L, and L was in a toxic
0:33.5	relationship with a paranoid controlling abuser. It's a story of insecurities, conforming, sexual coercion, responsibility deficit disorder,
0:45.3	recognizing patterns, and changing behavior for the kids.
0:50.0	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone with me today. I have Elle. How are you?
1:17.5	I'm good. How are you?
1:20.3	I am doing well. And before we get into your story, everyone, if you want to be a guest on our show, like L is today,
1:33.0	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:36.5	Top of the button. Top of the page. There's a button that says guest form.
1:41.1	Click on that button. It takes you to our guest form page.
1:44.4	Please read all the instructions and send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse.
1:48.4	At gmail.com or just fill out our guest forum page and press the submit button.
1:54.3	And today you are going to hear Elle's story and a big trigger warning for everyone. We have a talk on here of sexual
2:03.9	coercion. There's physical abuse talk as well. So please be aware of that. And that's the big trigger
2:13.3	warning for you today on those two subjects. And, you know, Elle here has lived a life.
2:21.7	She's been raised by a narcissistic mother. And there's that whole story. This podcast could
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