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We Can Do Hard Things

Elizabeth Gilbert on Losing the Love of Her Life

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.841.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

442. Elizabeth Gilbert on Losing the Love of Her Life  Elizabeth Gilbert comes to Glennon’s home to talk about her love with Rayya Elias—the joy, the devastation, and the truth-telling that came after. Liz opens up about the brutal reality of addiction—Rayya’s drug addiction and her own love addiction—and how their secret lives collided. This is a conversation about intimacy, betrayal, codependency, survival, and recovery. And it’s about how even the hardest truths, once spoken, can set us free. About Elizabeth: Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of nine previous works of fiction and nonfiction, which collectively have sold more than 25 million copies worldwide, spent more than 250 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list, and been translated into more than fifty languages.  She has been a finalist for the National Book Award, the National Book Critics Circle Award, and the PEN/Hemingway Award. With more than 20 million views of her TED Talk and 2.7 million followers on her social media accounts, she continues to be one of the most beloved and influential writers of our age.. Her new memoir: ALL THE WAY TO THE RIVER: Love, Loss, and Liberation is available now.

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0:00.0

Well, Pod Squad, here we are.

0:13.1

I want to start by saying a couple things.

0:16.2

First of all, in thinking about doing this interview, this conversation, I have had, you will be

0:28.8

shocked to know that I've been feeling big about it, and I have been thinking about over-preparing

0:36.2

and obsessing about it for a couple reasons.

0:38.9

One being today we are talking with Liz Gilbert, which is already important to me because

0:46.3

I love you and respect you so much.

0:49.3

You are just like if you looked at my heart, a big portion of it would just be dedicated to you.

0:55.6

Okay?

0:58.8

So already it's important to me.

1:01.9

But on top of that, what we're talking about today is your new book, which it's called All the Way to the River. And this is an early interview, but I'm

1:14.7

certain that even by the time it comes out, everyone's going to already be talking about it,

1:18.9

because it's the most beautiful. It's the most beautiful and brutal and transcendent love story that I've ever read.

1:33.0

And it's the most honest and affecting thing that I've ever read, which I always think about every book, new book you put out. But this time I'm really serious.

1:48.0

And because it is, I got to be close-ish to a lot of this while it was going on. We were kind of all in it together, although

1:56.8

there is so much, as I've told you, I read it three times because there's so much that I didn't know that reading it felt.

2:08.4

I read it. The first time I read it, I read it like, like I wasn't even taking it in because it was,

2:16.0

it made me feel sympathy for my close people who read my books when they

2:21.1

don't know all the stuff going on behind the scenes and how. So this weekend, I said to myself,

2:28.7

Glennon, this is the most sacred talk you've had on this podcast.

2:36.0

And the way I used to, I would have completed that sentence was, so you better get your shit together.

2:41.6

You better freak out.

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