EBB 82 - Two Dads' Insights on Birth and Starting a Family
Evidence Based Birth®
Rebecca Dekker
4.3 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 12 June 2019
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we'll listen to my husband Dan Dekker and our brother-in-law Ryan talk about their experiences on becoming fathers and watching the births of their children. As we are approaching Father's Day in the U.S., I wanted to do something special and share this interview that I recorded when I was teaching a college class on childbirth. We were discussing the importance of not only listening to the stories of people who give birth, but also their partners - because birth can be a life-altering experience for the partner as well as the birthing person.
You'll hear both Dan and Ryan recall the experiences of watching each of their three children be born. They will also answer a really fascinating question: What's good about being a parent? Studies are showing that many of today's young people are reluctant to start families as they view it as disruptive to their lives. Dan's and Ryan's perspectives on fatherhood may surprise you.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone on today's podcast we're going to listen to an interview with Dan and |
| 0:04.8 | Ryan two brothers-in-law about their experiences watching their partners give birth and |
| 0:09.6 | why somebody today might even want to become a parent. |
| 0:13.2 | Welcome to the Evidence-Based Birth Podcast. |
| 0:19.6 | My name is Rebecca Decker and I'm a nurse with my PhD and the founder of Evidence Base Birth. |
| 0:25.0 | Join me each week as we work together to get evidence-based information into the hands of families and professionals around the world. |
| 0:33.0 | As a reminder, this information is not medical advice. |
| 0:36.0 | See EBBbirth.com slash disclaimer for more details. |
| 0:49.6 | Hi everyone, we are coming up to Father's Day and here at Evidence-based Birth I wanted to say Happy Father's Day to all the dads out there who might be listening. |
| 0:53.0 | Today I wanted to do something special and I wanted to share with you an interview that I recorded |
| 0:58.1 | when I was teaching a college class about childbirth and I had my husband Dan, Mr. E.B. |
| 1:03.0 | And our brother-in-law, Ryan, come to the class to share their experiences |
| 1:07.6 | becoming fathers. |
| 1:09.0 | In the college class, we had talked about the importance of not only listening to the stories of people who give birth, |
| 1:15.8 | but also to their partners, because birth can be a life-altering experience for the partner |
| 1:21.6 | as well as the birthing person. In this particular |
| 1:24.2 | class period we were focusing on the experience of fathers. In this episode you'll |
| 1:28.6 | hear both Dan and Ryan share the experience of watching each of their three children be born and the and then they're going to answer a really fascinating question, which is |
| 1:38.0 | what's good about being a parent? There's been a lot of interesting research coming out showing that a lot of younger people today are |
| 1:46.4 | reluctant to even consider parenthood because it's too disruptive to their lives. |
| 1:52.1 | So I asked Ryan and Dan, you know, are you glad you became |
| 1:55.3 | parents? What's good about becoming a father? And I think their answers will |
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