to say, oh, no, no, no, I'm not creating those thoughts.

Like all of these external things have created my mood is a much easier thing than taking

accountability for being in a pissy mood.

Hey there.

I'm Matt Diabella and welcome to my short form podcast, Three Rules.

Each episode, I ask a guest to share three rules that help them find success and happiness.

Today, I'm joined by Aman and Beck, entrepreneurs, YouTubers, YouTubers, and Van Life Pioneers,

who have built a global community by sharing their adventures on the road.

From converting camper vans to launching a successful tea company, they've mastered the art

of seamlessly integrating their passions into their life and bringing

their audience along for the ride. Let's jump into these three rules. What's rule number one?

Rule number one is happiness is a choice. And I think it's important to preface this with

it's our rule and how we live. And I know that as I say that, it can be really triggering for people.

I first learned about it from Mo Gottit's book, Solved for Happy. And he said after he made that

statement on his like Kindle analytics, he can see that 80% of people drop off.

So people don't want to hear it. And they don't want to know that they can make the choice to stop being unhappy, which is another way of saying the same thing.

So we've really dove into this world. And I would just invite people to maybe it doesn't resonate with them right now.

Maybe they're in a place where things are really hard and it feels like

that isn't a choice that they could make. But I just invite them to like keep it as a possibility,

put it in the back of their brain and maybe one day the things we're about to say will resonate.

Yeah, we've talked about this a lot on our show is it is triggering for people. And even though

we're leading this off with our rule as rule number one, it really,

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