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Know Thyself

E89 - Matthew Hussey: The #1 BLOCK Between You & Your Dream Love Life… DO THIS

Know Thyself

André Duqum

Self-improvement, Education

4.8659 Ratings

🗓️ 26 March 2024

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

Bestselling author & dating expert Matthew Hussey reveals how to eliminate the blocks in your love life and magnetize your dream partnership. Matthew explores the balance between developing dating competency and doing the inner work to become a match to what you desire. He reveals the #1 reason people keep falling for emotionally unavailable individuals and how to choose the person who will be your perfect fit.  Matthew shares the 4 crucial steps to finding and identifying 'the one', explaining how to clarify non-negotiables and be sure about the person you're choosing. He also gives advice for healing heartbreak, accessing vulnerability, and navigating personal growth in relationship. André's Book Recommendations: https://www.knowthyself.one/books ___________ Timecodes: 0:00 Intro  2:10 Becoming Competent AND Magnetic in Dating  7:25 The True Secret to Attracting Your Dream Partner 14:26 Why You Keep Falling in Love with Emotionally Unavailable People 22:39 The Power of Partnership for Inner Growth 34:14 Accessing Our Vulnerability in Relationships 37:38 4 Crucial Steps to Find "The One"  43:51 Identifying Your Non-Negotiables & What You TRULY Want 56:40 The #1 Way to Heal Heartbreak  1:05:33 Inside "Love Life", A Guide to Navigating Relationships 1:10:46 The Value of Being Alone 1:11:22 What Men & Women Don't Understand About Each Other 1:16:08 What Chronic Pain Taught Me 1:23:35 Conclusion ___________ Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community, Love Life Club. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/?hl=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Website: https://matthewhussey.com Pre-Order "Love Life": https://matthewhussey.com/lovelifebook-announce/ ___________ Looking to Start a Podcast? Podcasting Course: https://www.podcastpurpose.com/ Know Thyself Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/ Website: https://www.knowthyself.one Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ4wglCWTJeWQC0exBalgKg Listen to all episodes on Audio:  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FSiemtvZrWesGtO2MqTZ4?si=d389c8dee8fa4026 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/know-thyself/id1633725927 André Duqum Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreduqum/ Meraki Media https://merakimedia.com https://www.instagram.com/merakimedia/

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0:00.0

Our past in our love life does not have to equal our future, but you have to find ways to start to create a different reality and the one that you've been experiencing for so long.

0:10.4

There are three relationships we'll be in until the day we die. There's our relationship with other people, our relationship with ourselves, and our relationship with life itself.

0:19.6

The quality of those relationships will determine the quality of your life.

0:23.6

A lot of us feel chronically dissatisfied in our love lives.

0:26.6

When we say, why do I keep doing this?

0:28.6

Why do I keep going for people that are bad for me?

0:31.6

You're not broken.

0:32.6

You're just...

0:33.6

The number of people that are hung up on someone is profound.

0:38.7

It's an exercise in science fiction to ruminate endlessly about what could have been

0:43.3

if the timing had been different.

0:45.4

We need to give ourselves a new model for what's worth our time, what's worth our energy,

0:49.8

what's worth crying over.

0:51.5

What do you say to those people that find themselves in that situation?

0:54.5

We have to...

0:59.5

Hey, everyone, welcome back to know thyself.

1:03.4

Today we're sitting down with one of the world's leading dating and relationship coach.

1:07.5

He's helped millions of people around the world cultivate their dream love life

1:12.0

through his seminars, YouTube videos, and books. New one, Love Life. I'm excited to dive into how we can

1:18.9

magnetize our dream, love life, and the blocks that are stopping us from doing. So Matthew Hussey,

1:24.2

thanks for being here. Thanks, Andre. Good to be here. Yeah, I've been looking forward to this, man.

1:27.9

I've been seeing your work for many years, and I feel like this conversation will be able to serve a lot of people. Yeah, I hope so. I hope so. It's nice to be here in this very sort of moody and cozy space. A bit romantic one might say. Oh, I like it. What tea is this I have?

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