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The Art Of Coaching

E312 | Repairing a Strained Relationship: What to Say and Do

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5642 Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2024

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

What strained relationships are you currently facing or have you faced in the past? As long as other people are involved, strained relationships can exist in any context and often are exasperated at the worst possible times, only to make things exponentially worse.  So how are you supposed to deal with them? Today’s episode gives several examples of strained relationships, and is packed with ways for you to improve the ones you’re looking to reconcile.  Tune in to this quick hitter for The pertinent questions to ask yourself before having the hard conversation Tools to bring clarity and conciseness to your message Strategies to get feedback on your communication before the actual interaction How these same concepts apply to entrepreneurship, sales, and marketing This episode was a result of a listener reaching out with a specific issue they were working through.  What situations are you in that you’d like to hear another perspective on?  We understand the risks you might be facing if you share “classified” information, so don’t worry.  We keep it all anonymous in order to protect both you and the other parties involved.  That said, I hope this episode will encourage you to share with us!  Go to artofcoaching.com/question to contact our team directly. For a FREE and EASY list of reflection questions and an activity to help you apply this episode to your life, CLICK HERE. If you’re looking for something a little more stimulating and impactful than a list of reflection questions, check out our Apprenticeship workshop.  Communication is something no one will ever perfect, hence the name “The Apprenticeship.”  If you’re sick of wasting your time and money on conferences where the return on investment is little to none, come join us for an intimate and interactive workshop, where you’ll not only gain the knowledge and understanding you need to navigate the messy realities of relationships, but more importantly, you’ll get hands on experience working through your specific situation and gain the perspective of the AOC team and other individuals looking to improve themselves as well.  You can find our entire 2024 Live Event schedule here, and if you have any questions, schedule a free discovery call!  It would be our pleasure to help you find a solution and strategy to reaching your goals. Other Resources & Services We Offer to Help You Reach Your Goals: Online Courses Bought In Valued Blindspot Mentoring 1:1 Virtual Mentoring Group Mentoring Online Networking Community Today’s podcast is brought to you by Momentous. Moving into the new year, we are excited to announce our continued partnership with this loyal and reliable organization! Momentous is our oldest partner, but they are STILL improving their product. If you are looking for the best tasting and cleanest protein out there, look no further. Code: BRETT15 gets you 15% off your first order!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, quick personal note here, so I'd appreciate if you tune into this.

0:03.4

And maybe I shouldn't share this, but I'd really like to.

0:06.2

Despite running a company that is largely focused on communication and understanding power

0:12.4

dynamics and human interaction, I've all short a lot.

0:15.8

My wife and I have been together for 13 plus years.

0:18.6

We get an arguments, we fight.

0:20.4

I lose my cool sometimes in many areas of my life.

0:24.4

And for a long time, I felt like that made me a failure.

0:27.0

And then what I realize is it's exactly what we talk about

0:30.0

at Art of Coaching and why our products exist.

0:32.0

None of us are ever going to be good enough at communication.

0:36.0

My doctorate doesn't mean that I'm going to be a perfect communicator,

0:38.0

the fact that I write books on this doesn't mean that I'm gonna be a perfect communicator. And if you already feel like you're good enough in your professional life,

0:45.4

well, then I just ask you to consider

0:47.0

if you're where you wanna be in your personal life.

0:49.4

Do you interact with your spouse or your partner

0:51.8

or your significant other the way that you want to?

0:54.1

Do you always show up for your kids the way that you want to?

0:57.0

I think if you're being honest, we all fall short.

0:59.6

And that's where our work can help. We don't do a bunch of pine the sky solutions. We're real people who

1:05.3

have real flaws just like you, but we take a research-backed approach and an experienced

1:10.4

lead approach to help you improve in those areas that matter most. So if you want to improve

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