E295 Ask Nick - You’re Not Over It

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows, Tv & Film

4 • 24.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 July 2021

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

On today's episode of Ask Nick we start with talking about cheating. Our first caller’s boyfriend cheated on her with his ex who is still in their friend group. She forgave him but she is around this ex on a regular basis and is finding it hard to not have anxiety about the situation. Next, we speak to someone who considers herself to be the D.U.F.F. (designated ugly fat friend) in her friend group and is finding it hard when they are out together because she does not get acknowledged by guys when her friends are there. Third, we speak with someone who has defined a relationship after 5 months of dating but the lack of communication is a struggle and she is questioning whether or not they are being fully honest with each other about what they want. Lastly, we speak about healing and love-bombing in an on-and-off again relationship, when speaking about past relationships and trauma brings jealously into a relationship that our caller keeps trying to sustain on technicalities.

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0:00.0	What's going on everybody welcome back to another amazing episode of The Valfos I'm your
0:19.0	host Nick and we are joined by the amazing trio of Chrissy Amanda and Ali how are you
0:26.6	ladies doing good oh our Mike's working good doing well doing well great anything new
0:34.7	remember the guy that I was asking you about last time we didn't ask Nick that I was like he
0:40.8	hasn't reached out and you were like neither have you everything you're saying about him
0:44.4	okay so I decided to text him I think like Thursday of last week just being like how's your
0:51.2	week going and it was like a little back and forth just like catching up but then nothing beyond
0:55.8	that my roommate the wing woman that she is like arranged for us all to go to her mom's pool
1:01.4	yesterday so it was literally my roommate my roommate's brother this dude and myself okay and the
1:08.0	whole thing was so confusing he showed up he came by himself she invited all of his roommates but
1:12.8	he like just came alone after he ignored your text he didn't ignore it but like he didn't really
1:17.2	can like we had a few texts back and forth but I hadn't heard from him in a few days okay I had a
1:23.1	fun time but like he wasn't he's not really great at like asking questions are like really like
1:28.8	again continuing the conversation and then I felt like there was moments where like he could have
1:33.4	like spent time with me one-on-one but he like didn't yeah so it sounds like he maybe he's just
1:38.1	not in there exactly but then the confusing thing was at that point I was like I'm gonna go home
1:41.7	and drink a bottle of barefoot alone fuck this and then as we're leaving I'm getting in my roommate's
1:47.1	car and I like just assumed I wouldn't even say goodbye to him because I was like clearly this is
1:51.1	not going anywhere and he comes up he like gives me this big hug looks at me and kind of like a
1:56.8	winky kind of look and is like see you soon and I'm like that's so frustrating to me because you
2:01.9	don't get to like say see you see what did you say I was like mm-hmm and got in the car like I was
2:06.5	like this is so frustrating you don't get to basically me why didn't you like seize the moment
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