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The Art Of Coaching

E271 | How to Not Choke: Strategies for Performing Under Pressure

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5642 Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

“Human beings under pressure are wonderfully unpredictable. Their nature is a puzzle to us all. When human beings are placed in an arena, and their hopes and fears are exposed in front of 1000s, they're likely to do extraordinary things. This is especially true if somebody has told them, “don't let us down.”  - Pat Moore   When faced with one of life's biggest moments- whether that's giving a speech at a loved one's wedding, interviewing for your dream job, or performing in front of a crowd of hundreds of strangers, the last thing we need to worry about is choking or freezing up.    And yet, for many that's a very real concern.    But freezing in big moments is not only avoidable, it's something that even the most seasoned of professionals deals with. And it's definitely not a reason to say no to these opportunities in the first place...  In this episode we discuss: What choking is and why it happens (07:00) How to reframe your thoughts about your physiological responses (12:30) What a sound, realistic routine looks like and how to not become a slave to it (21:30) Strategies to help you build the skills necessary to handle high pressure situations and get the results you want (40:20)   If this is something you’re ready to dive into, to step out of your comfort zone and immerse yourself in the experience you need to improve in this area, The Apprenticeship workshop is where you need to be.  This 2-day live event is centered around building the skills to perform - not just taking in more information.  Through experiential learning, we’ll provide you with the frameworks, tools, practice and feedback you need to truly enhance your performance in high stake situations.  Check out our entire live event schedule to choose your location today!   Referenced Resources: E259: Understanding and Overcoming Perfectionism Webinar: Impact of Influence Quiz: What Drives You? Mighty Network: Our private non-social media-based community Facilitator Course: Get paid to teach with the AoC team   Speaking of high pressure situations, if you’re a leader, coach, business owner, or if other people depend on you in any way, having a supportive community is an extremely beneficial tool to help you not get overwhelmed. This is why we’ve created The Coalition - a collection of committed professionals to bounce ideas off of, help you make big decisions, and offer a second opinion to make sure your blindspots are covered.  If you’d benefit from a group of experienced advocates in your corner, talk to our team and apply for The Coalition today! Spots are limited, so don’t wait.   Today’s episode is brought to you by Momentous. Just as all of us at Art of Coaching discuss the critical nature of the words we choose- none of you need me to tell you the importance of what you put in your body. I could care less if you’re a world-class athlete, more of the Uncle Rico Archetype or simply someone who sits at a desk all day in the corporate world- what you put in your body matters.  Momentous makes products that are no-nonsense, quality-tested at the highest level and for anyone who just wants to feel better without overthinking their nutritional support options.  Skip the fads, master the basics. Use Code: BRETT15 for 15% off your order.

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, Brett here. I'm going to speak in his straight

0:13.9

port of a manner as I can about something. If you're somebody that just feels like

0:18.1

something's off and I'm not talking about psychologically in that way, I'm

0:22.4

talking about in terms of where you are with your career, your job, your profession, whatever term you want to use, maybe even your

0:29.6

life. And you're not quite sure about what the next step is. Or maybe you've taken the

0:34.6

next step, but you feel like you're on an island. You don't know how to make progress.

0:39.6

And I think of a conversation I had recently with somebody that I respect highly that

0:43.4

decided to leave a job that they had worked at for a very long time in a profession they had worked to build

0:49.0

a lot of credibility in.

0:51.1

Yet it just wasn't what made them happy anymore.

0:54.1

And they sat out on their own and that was scary, right?

0:57.1

It's scary because they have to go tell their significant other, it's scary because they

1:00.2

have to figure out is this business viable?

1:03.3

How do I promote my own work without seeming sleazy?

1:06.3

How do I price myself all these things that are overwhelming?

1:10.2

And I can relate to that because I went through that as well.

1:13.6

I made a decision as in my wife,

1:15.8

we made a decision to go out on our own in 2017, 2018.

1:20.5

And there are a lot of things we gave up.

1:22.4

And there were a lot of struggles

1:23.6

and a lot of things we gave up and there were a lot of struggles and a lot of unique circumstances and we didn't have anybody to turn to

1:27.0

This is exactly why I created the coalition

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