The This is your host Ryan Naidel and today's episode is your goals are too big.

Today's episode, I'm going to share with you

why the goals that you've set are almost bound to fail. I know, crazy way to start out an episode. You've set

ostentagious goals for 2019. You're motivated. It's a first week in

January. You want to achieve everything that you set out to do. I can truly tell you I want

you to achieve that and more. That's why I'm sharing this message with you.

You see, most years for my life, I sat down sometime in December, maybe the first week in January, and created goals.

That's unfamiliar?

Have you yourself maybe sat down already and created some goals for yourself?

Some things that you know you need to change? Some things that need perfected and tweaked.

I get it. We all do it. It's almost like what the New years is known for is creating these new ideas and new pathways, new success principles.

And when I used to sit down and set these out, I would say, okay, there's all this stuff that I didn't

do.

If I look back at the past year, I wanted to lose weight. I wanted to get up earlier. I want to be a

better boyfriend at that point or have more money in the bank account. These are all

things I had to do. I had convinced myself that these were the things that were going to make me successful.

Also things were going to make me feel whole, fulfilled on the inside.

And so I would write down, right? I'd get a sheet of paper out and I'd do all the good happy things that we're supposed to do in order to make us feel successful. I'd write down, you know, this year I'm going to do whatever it would be.

And from the standpoint, this vantage point, I would then eventually get into like the metaphysics

world of discussing that I'm going to talk that this is present

tense like I already own these things like this is already who I am wonderful

right maybe you've done the same thing.

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