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Sober Friends

E259: You Can Still Be Sober and Have Bad Days

Sober Friends

Matt J

12 Steps, Spirituality, Personal Journals, Mental Health, Sober, Recovery, Health & Fitness, Addiction, Religion & Spirituality, Alcohol Free, Sober Curious, Alcoholics Anonymous, Dry January, Society & Culture, Sobriety

4.3722 Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2026

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Send us Fan Mail You can be sober and still have bad days — and that doesn’t mean you’re doing recovery wrong. In this episode, Matt and Steve talk honestly about what it looks like to stay sober through anxiety, physical pain, holidays, and emotional discomfort. Matt shares his experience recovering from surgery, navigating anxiety, and using prescribed pain medication safely without triggering old behaviors. Steve reflects on how holidays and stress at home can still bring up difficult feel...

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Sober Friends podcast.

0:05.0

My name is Matt Jay.

0:06.0

My co-host is Steve and we're here to help you out if you are on the path to sobriety, sober curious, or you're already shrung a couple days together like the two of us.

0:18.0

What's going on, Steve?

0:21.9

It's another sober day for us.

0:23.9

Another sober day.

0:24.7

Good morning, Matt.

0:26.7

So I want to talk a little bit about you can have sober days.

0:30.8

You can be sober and still have bad days.

0:33.3

I think I talked last week.

0:35.3

I had surgery.

0:36.8

And I had my surgery. It went surgery. And I had my surgery.

0:39.2

It went fine.

0:40.2

And I have to tell you I have had anxiety over it.

0:43.8

I've just, I've had anxiety because I'm not as active as I'm used to.

0:47.8

I can't go to the gym until I have the stitches out because they don't want my hand to get all sweaty and infected. So I don't have my

0:56.4

outlets. I already have anxiety about my weight to begin with. So all of this stuff comes in.

1:03.3

But I'm still sober. As a matter of fact, they gave me Vicodin for the pain. And I used

1:10.7

Vicodin the first day. I think it used it once or twice the

1:15.0

second day. And that's it. I just, it was very easy to put aside. Which I was surprised by. I'm

1:23.0

like, okay, I'm done. We're going over to Tylenol now. I'm good, which felt like such a victory of like, all right, this is not, I'm using something as it is prescribed. I need to keep the pain down. And once that happened, it's time to move on. And that was a great feeling. But it's just been, eh. And I know it's not forever move on and that was a great feeling but it's just been and i know it's not forever

1:46.7

but i'm still sober i'm not drinking and i'm not thinking of a drink yeah that's the key it's um

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