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The Art Of Coaching

E151 | How To Ask For Help

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5642 Ratings

🗓️ 25 January 2021

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Let's not bury the lede - I struggle asking for help. I've often wondered if it's possible to do in a way that doesn't compromise relationships or  reputation because (to the untrained eye) asking for help can seem to convey weakness, lack of fortitude, intelligence, and even organization. But none of us get through life without help in some form... So why do we have such an aversion to it? Today (in part IV of this series!) I’m diving into the 6 reasons why we struggle to ask for help, how to ask for it more effectively and why it's so hard to give good help! Speaking of help, we’d like to offer some. We’re hosting an FREE online workshop for individuals who want to get unstuck, figure out their competitive advantage and get off the  fence so they can make an impact. Click the link below to save your spot!  https://artofcoaching.com/clarity/ As always, you can find out more about this topic and other resources we offer at:  https://artofcoaching.com/resources/ Join Our Coalition Mentoring Program here Follow me on social media: Via Instagram: @coach_BrettB Via Twitter: @coach_BrettB Subscribe to my YouTube channel here Learn More About My Courses, Clinics, and Live Events At: www.ArtofCoaching.com

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0:00.0

What we want to investigate today is a simple truth.

0:05.5

The fact that it is not sexy to ask for help, it is hard, no matter who you are or what

0:12.9

you want and what you're struggling with.

0:15.1

But the truth is that none of us get through life without it in some way, shape or form.

0:21.3

So why is it that we hold it in such contempt?

0:24.3

Aside from being worried about

0:25.6

what others think, we of course crave validation instead of this, and it's nice to try to be

0:31.2

able to claim that we're a self-made man or a woman, but that's the purist form of ego

0:36.2

candy that really allows us to satisfy some kind of self-indulgent sweet it for the sense of security and control over our own lives or our perceived

0:45.9

success or lack in their ab.

0:50.7

Welcome to the Articoting Podcast, a show aimed at getting to the core of what it takes to change attitudes, behaviors, and outcomes in the weight room, board room, classroom,

1:09.8

and everywhere in between.

1:11.6

I'm your host, Brett Barthalmue.

1:13.1

I'm a performance coach, keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching.

1:17.6

But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student interested in all aspects of human behavior

1:22.2

and communication. I want to thank you for joining me,

1:25.1

and now let's dive into today's episode.

1:27.7

Hey, it's Brett here, and I'm curious about something

1:36.9

if you'll entertain me for a moment.

1:38.8

How many of these statements, if any at all,

1:41.7

resonate with you?

1:44.4

I know I have knowledge to share and a genuine desire to help others, but I still feel like

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