E142 | Nate Hoffmeister: Dealing with Divorce: A Leader’s Guide

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5 • 642 Ratings

🗓️ 7 December 2020

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

On this show we don’t shy away from sensitive topics. We aim to bring you real, honest and important conversations. Today’s episode is exactly that. Nate Hoffmeister is a father, husband, coach, and entrepreneur. But he’s also a divorced dad of two. And while this is a narrative shared by many, there are few who have been willing to publicly talk about their experience. Even if his story of divorce doesn’t speak to you directly, his vulnerability, candor and lessons learned will definitely reframe how you approach ALL relationships. Join our conversation as we discuss: The stigma men face when asking for help What happens when you fail to practice what you preach… Reframing divorce and the positives of heartbreak Counseling - is it for me? Talking to kids about divorce Nate isn’t just a great storyteller and human being, he’s also the creator of an incredible community that supports and educates men who are navigating broken situations including the prison system and divorce. Click here to learn more! Connect with Nate: Via his website: http://www.n-eight.net/ Via Instagram: @the.n.8 If you’re struggling with a difficult situation in your job or career, we’d also encourage you to check out our FREE webinar Unstuck or our online course, VALUED. Together, these resources will provide you with the tools you need to deal with burnout, provide more value, negotiate contracts, create a safety net, prepare for job transitions, and MORE!

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0:00.0	I think we all wear many masks at different times and I think our career is definitely
0:05.2	one of those and I think you know I think another reason why we hang onto it is as I was
0:09.9	going through my divorce you know there's tons of things that I thought you know obviously
0:14.6	I was a wasn't good at I was fear my fears you know fear of being left fear of not being
0:19.8	good enough all that and then all of a sudden it's like hey I'm going to stay team
0:22.2	you should something this you know we're fighting for World Title, the other, y'all, y'all, and it's like,
0:25.3	well, yeah, I'm good at this and this and this,
0:27.4	so then I'm going to stay in that lane of where I'm good at.
0:29.8	It took me a long time to realize that all these things
0:33.2	that I'm good at are that help other people. I think
0:45.3	self-esteem is these are some of the things or one of the many things that led to
0:48.7	not a very successful marriage. Welcome to the Art of Coaching Podcast, a show aimed at getting to the core of what
1:10.8	it takes to change attitudes, behaviors, and outcomes in the weight room, board room,
1:15.7	classroom, and everywhere in between.
1:18.6	I'm your host, Brett Bartholmue.
1:20.0	I'm a performance coach, keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching.
1:24.5	But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student interested keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching. But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student
1:26.6	interested in all aspects of human behavior
1:29.2	and communication.
1:30.6	I want to thank you for joining me,
1:32.0	and now let's dive into today's episode.
1:40.1	If you can't communicate, then you can't compete
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