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15 Minutes to Freedom

E141 You Can't Pick Your Family

15 Minutes to Freedom

Ryan Niddel

Personal Journals, Motivational, Entrepreneurship, Business, Body, Meditation, Society & Culture, Relationships, Journal

3.61.5K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2018

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

It’s no secret to anyone that’s been listening to the podcast. My family history growing up was a bit dicey. Fortunately or unfortunately, we don’t have the choice of picking our family. However, we do have a choice how we react and relate to them. The interesting thing is how our perception of our family can change as we get older.

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0:00.0

The I'm Ryan Naidel, host of 15 minutes to freedom, your daily action guide on how to get shit done.

0:30.0

Today's episode is You can't pick your family.

0:35.4

So in today's listener requested episode,

0:37.3

I'm gonna dive into a topic that's near and dear to my heart,

0:40.4

which is not being able to control the people in your life that share the same DNA.

0:47.0

So as many of you know, if you've been a long time listener, I had a little bit of a unique

0:55.2

childhood.

0:56.2

When I say unique, I think we all had a unique way that we were brought up.

1:00.0

I mean, no two of us listening right now had the same upbringing even if we were

1:04.9

twins and grew up in the same household the things that emotionally would have

1:09.1

scarred me would be different than the things that emotionally scarred you.

1:13.0

And I say that with love for our parents,

1:15.1

the people that raised us.

1:16.4

Whether there's our siblings or our grandparents or our parents,

1:19.2

you've probably heard me refer to it multiple times

1:21.6

and it's something I lived my life by where if you

1:23.6

look at the development on ages from 4 to 12 maybe as late as 14 in your life there is

1:28.7

some sort of impactful event that has happened that will eventually dictate the way you live your life as an adult.

1:36.0

Now for me it could have been my father coming home from work one day,

1:40.0

seeing that I threw walnuts at our freshly painted garage in Easter or New York

1:43.6

Seeing that I had thrown rocks from our backyard trying to hit a neighborhood girl and they were smashing on top of the car

1:48.9

And he was very upset and justifiably so and for that he beat me harder than I can ever

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