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The Art Of Coaching

E127 | How To Give The Most Effective Feedback

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5642 Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2020

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Summary

These days, the concept of feedback is akin to that of a song overplayed on the radio: initially intriguing but ultimately dismissed as cliche. In reality, good feedback is more like a dance; it requires two partners ready to engage in meaningful discourse. So what’s preventing us from participating in the dance and not just listening to the overplayed song? By and large, we don’t know how to properly give it, receive it, or ask for it. Today we are going to unpack what lies at the root of our issues with feedback and offer some practical strategies to overcome these challenges. In particular: Intrinsic feedback, augmented feedback, formative feedback… Where do I even begin? How to maximize FIT between the person, the performance, and the persuasive appeal. Using the SHIP (specific, humble, interval-based, practical) analogy to give better feedback The worst thing you can do when asking for feedback When is it too much? Feedback dependence and clicker training If giving and receiving feedback is something you’ve struggled with, you’re in luck! We now offer 1 on 1 and small group communication training. Let us help you work through your personal obstacles by objectively evaluating your current practices and then providing personalized strategies tailored to your needs. The idea and importance of feedback isn’t going away; head to https://artofcoaching.com/communication to learn more. Join Our Coalition Mentoring Program here Follow me on social media: Via Instagram: @coach_BrettB Via Twitter: @coach_BrettB Subscribe to my YouTube channel here Learn More About My Courses, Clinics, and Live Events At: www.ArtofCoaching.com

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0:00.0

Before you ask for feedback, just ask yourself one question.

0:07.3

What do I actually want from this?

0:10.2

And unless you have a clear answer to that question, hey, I want to get better at my communication

0:16.8

skills.

0:17.8

If you don't have an answer for that, don't even bother asking for feedback.

0:22.0

Just don't.

0:23.0

And then if you do, go find the correct source for that feedback.

0:26.7

Find an authentic communicator who's willing and ready to give you that feedback and be

0:30.4

specific when you ask for it.

0:34.6

Welcome to the Art of Coaching Podcasts. a show aimed at getting to the core of what

0:47.5

it takes to change attitudes, behaviors, and outcomes in the weight room, board room,

0:52.4

classroom, and everywhere in between.

0:55.0

I'm your host, Brett Bartholmue.

0:56.4

I'm a performance coach, keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching.

1:01.2

But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student interested in all aspects of human behavior and communication.

1:07.3

I want to thank you for joining me, and now let's dive into today's episode.

1:17.3

So imagine this.

1:19.0

It's date night, and you're with your significant other, your partner, or maybe you're just

1:24.1

with a friend, and you're looking for something to do.

1:27.0

And you've done the dinner thing, you've done the, you know, you watch plenty of shows, you've gone out and done excursions. Of course, this is pre-COVID, so you could actually go out and do things.

1:37.0

And you think, well, let's do something we've never done before. Let's go take dance lessons. So you plan this, you both get home from work,

1:46.2

you shower, you change clothes, you maybe go out to a favorite place that you enjoy for dinner,

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