E126 - Gabby Bernstein: Rewire Limiting Beliefs, Heal Your Wounded Parts & Find Inner Freedom
Know Thyself
André Duqum
4.8 • 658 Ratings
🗓️ 10 December 2024
⏱️ 74 minutes
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Summary
Gabby Bernstein explores the profound self help practices from IFS (Internal Family Systems Therapy) aimed at helping to release limiting beliefs and unlock inner freedom. She explains the inner parts of ourself that hold us back, influencing our thoughts and behaviors, often originating from an early age. And how by acknowledging and understanding these inner aspects, we can address internal conflicts, heal trauma, and transform limiting beliefs.
Gabby shares who we are at our core: the "Self" that is inherently compassionate and capable of healing. She gives a 4 step check in process to use in moments when you're triggered, that will help you start to heal you relationship to these parts.
She also opens up about her personal experience with this work and how it helped her to create the life of her dreams (from the inside out).
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0:00 Intro
1:46 The Beliefs that Limit You (And How to Unlearn Them)
3:42 IFS: A Therapy System for Becoming Whole
11:05 Who We Really Are, At Our Core
16:49 Protector Parts & Where They Come From
23:24 Correlation of Addiction & Childhood Trauma
27:57 The 4 Step Check In Process (Do This When You're Triggered)
35:51 Staying Curious in Self Inquiry
38:01 Exiled Parts & The Hidden Traumas we Carry
40:04 How Unconscious ‘Parts’ May Serve Us
48:46 Awareness Changes Everything: The Process of Becoming Whole
53:49 The Part of Herself She’s Trying to Heal
59:52 Don’t Spiritually Bypass Yourself
1:02:34 Facing Postpartum Depression & Menopause
1:09:03 Developing Clarity Through Mindfulness Practices
1:11:33 Conclusion
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Renowned spiritual teacher and #1 New York Times bestselling author Gabby Bernstein has been hailed as a “next-generation thought leader," by Oprah Winfrey. Bernstein is the author of nine bestselling books including The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and her latest New York Times bestseller, Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. Her empowering perspective and compassionate insights inspired The New York Times to call her, “a role model for a new generation of spiritual seekers.” Bernstein is the creator and host of the podcast Dear Gabby, where she connects with her community and offers insightful, real-time coaching, straight talk, and BIG LOVE. Through her presentations and generous Q&A sessions, Bernstein makes a major impact on individuals and organizations alike, and she has been sought-after by groups such as Google, the AOL Build Series, TED Talks, Oprah’s SuperSoul Sessions, and many more.
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Website: www.gabbybernstein.com
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| 0:00.0 | The journey of healing is a journey of undoing the false pretenses that we've placed upon ourselves |
| 0:05.6 | and returning to who we really are. |
| 0:08.0 | All of us, no matter how great our upbringing might have been, we all experienced some form of trauma. |
| 0:13.8 | Those moments can be so extreme for us as young children that we don't actually have the inner |
| 0:19.2 | capacity to process those deep experiences of shame or inadequacy or even terror. |
| 0:24.8 | And so as little, little people, we start building protectors. |
| 0:27.8 | And those protectors could be people pleasing or trying to be seen. |
| 0:31.8 | And so through the practice of IFS, we dismantle, calm, and settle the protectors so that self can emerge. |
| 0:54.7 | You're recognizing that it's not who you are. It's just a part of who you are. And now here is a four-step practice to do it. The beauty is that now you have a tool that whenever you think you're going to check out, you can check in, and every time you check in, you expand your connection to self. And the more you trust in self, the more empowered you feel because you're not trying so hard to stay alive. You actually know there's safety inside and self can help. |
| 1:05.5 | Hey everyone, welcome back to the Know They Self podcast. Our guest today is a multiple times over |
| 1:10.8 | New York Times best |
| 1:12.0 | selling author. She explores many themes around psychological healing and spiritual awakening. And I just |
| 1:17.9 | love her raw honesty and personality as it comes through and sharing her insights along her |
| 1:23.8 | own personal path. Gabby Bernstein, thanks for being here. So good to be here. I think I have died and gone to podcast heaven with my rose tea. If anyone could just like catapult themselves into this room, it's fun. Yeah, come join us. Grab a cup of tea. We're going to talk healing and all the things. Best tea I've ever had in my life. Yeah. Thank you. Well, where I want to start today is hearing your thoughts on something that I've |
| 1:49.7 | been contemplating and thinking about for a while, which is we have subconscious resistance in us |
| 1:55.2 | to receiving and allowing life to give us love, abundance, well-being, because we have somatic familiarity with scarcity |
| 2:02.9 | and fear and not enoughness. And so in life, our mind might say we want things, like a relationship, |
| 2:09.8 | a career, a person, you know, to come into it, but our body feels we deserve something else. |
| 2:15.1 | And so what has been your journey exploring that dynamic? |
| 2:19.3 | I have been on a particularly about 19 year journey now of unlearning the fear-based beliefs that |
| 2:27.9 | create the somatic experience of that kind of suffering. And then of course, through unlearning |
| 2:33.6 | the belief systems, healing the somatic experience. And then of course, through unlearning the belief systems, |
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