E12 Small Towns with Elyse Dehlbom
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
3.8 • 26.3K Ratings
🗓️ 20 March 2019
⏱️ 100 minutes
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Summary
This week, I'm joined by the lovely Elyse Dehlbom who is known for leaving Colton's season of The Bachelor on her own terms. Before we talk all things Bachelor, we address that polarizing Demi episode. We discuss the concept of "mansplaining" and ask how we can better understand it and how to avoid it. We talk about Elyse's choice of breakup clothing (wedding dress?) and how to navigate dating people with children. As always, we answer some fan questions and things get…well…steamy.This podcast is all about learning and deepening the conversation. Thanks for coming with me on this journey.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everybody. Welcome to another episode of the Vile files. I'm your host, Nick. We have a wonderful |
| 0:23.2 | guest today, Elise. Very excited about this. Before we get into learning so much about Elise, I |
| 0:33.2 | thought I was, I assumed I was going to get some heat from last episode with Demi. I didn't |
| 0:41.0 | anticipate getting as much heat as I got and then I got like sensitive about it and like bombed. |
| 0:50.4 | So I figured we'd have a quick discussion. I am curious about man-splaining. I got I got some |
| 0:57.7 | criticism for for man-splaining. I will say though that I mean I I left with a fantastic |
| 1:07.5 | impression of Demi. We talked a little bit before the podcast. I did for full disclosure ask Demi |
| 1:12.9 | if it would be okay if I gave her a little bit of a hard time leading into the episode and to her |
| 1:18.0 | credit she was all for it and so part of that was a little bit of that. I guess people I guess |
| 1:24.0 | people can debate whether that was even necessary to begin with. I kind of assumed you know Demi being |
| 1:31.3 | the lovable entertaining character that she was. I also also had her critics when watching the show. |
| 1:40.4 | I always find it when people are challenged an opportunity to rise. I will say I watching it back |
| 1:46.8 | to Demi again in Demi's credit. I thought it was really great how when I was you know teasing or |
| 1:51.5 | she never at once got defensive. Never once and she oh I thought hold it handle herself great but |
| 1:57.2 | I think it brings an interesting point about man-splaining. I have I sometimes get sensitive to it. |
| 2:03.2 | The first time I became aware of man-splaining is when I mentioned a sweet Rochelle that I was on my |
| 2:10.0 | dear friend's podcast on the Huff Post and their audience is you know it's a feminist podcast. |
| 2:18.8 | So you know they're on it's a bachelor recap so they bring me in to recap the show and get my |
| 2:25.6 | take on the bachelor which again I've done a few times so like so there is a podcast format they're |
| 2:31.9 | talking about it and you know Claire and MR giving what they think might have happened behind the |
| 2:37.7 | scenes a lot and I'm kind of like a lot of times I'm like well that doesn't happen. No that's |
| 2:42.2 | just how it happens and then their audience is like well you're man-splaining and I give them |
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