Hello, Queen. Welcome back to the Date with Sense podcast. We have another amazing episode for you today. And this particular episode is for you. If you really struggle with liking dating, if you struggle with wanting to open yourself up,

to fall in love, to connect with men, to allow yourself to enjoy men because you have,

what do I want to call it, dating PTSD?

And the reason why you have this PTSD is because in all the connections that you have with men, the relationships, all the connections,

you felt like you have always put in all the effort. You've always been the one to make an effort,

but you haven't gotten much in return for showing up and putting in the effort. So you're the

woman who is always making time. You have always adjusted your schedule for men or you've always like made time to meet up even when it was

inconvenient for you and the man probably was like the man that you were talking to is probably

less flexible or he was the one that was canceling plans or rescheduling when you were like,

I'm going to adjust my schedule.

I'm going to make time to meet up when he was less flexible.

You're the woman who was probably there to provide emotional support.

So whatever was happening in his life, all the struggles, all the burdens,

you were there on the phone in person listening attentively. You were there while he was

during, you know, handling his challenges or his tough times. You were there trying to give

advice. You were there trying to give advice. You were there trying to

provide a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on or wine on, whatever, but you had not received

the same level of support from men. You're the woman who has been keeping conversations going, right? Whether you first

meet the man or you've been dating for a while, you have felt like you have been the one

carrying the conversations, initiating conversations when you haven't heard from him in a while.

And you have been the one that would like ask all the questions to keep the conversation

flowing while the man either, you know, if you reach out, he will respond to you, but he

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