Drs. John & Julie Gottman: This Predicts Divorce!

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Mayim Bialik

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Wellness, Health & Fitness, Comedy, Thebigbangtheory, Spirituality, Selfimprovement, Mentalhealth

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🗓️ 6 August 2024

⏱️ 138 minutes

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Summary

Relationship Experts Drs. John & Julie Gottman EXPOSE the SHOCKING REASON Why Relationships Fail. 94% Accurate Divorce Predictions: Discover the biggest predictors that guarantee which marriages will crumble and how to get the LOVE you WANT! The Gottman duo are world leading relationship researchers that have been studying couples for over 40 years, publishing over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab. Drs Gottman drop the ULTIMATE Relationship Bombshells, including the 4 Horsemen of Relationship Apocalypse (Spot these 4 predictors of relationship demise before they DESTROY your love life!), PLUS....learn the #1 skill for Connection and BETTER SEX! Your relationship is either HELPING or HARMING you HEALTH, and is a big factor in how you fight disease. The Gottmans also break down: - The #1 Cause of CHEATING & how it can lead to PTSD - Childhood Trauma’s Hidden Role in Relationships: How a lack of positive relationship role models can WRECK your marriage - Ways to better support your partner's trauma - Why Addiction can spell disaster for even the strongest of relationships - Phases of recovery from affairs & other forms of betrayal - How to argue with your partner in a healthy way - Why today’s culture seems to be afraid of long term commitment - Codependency: Is it really as HORRIBLE as it sounds, or could it be the key to your marriage’s survival & your own longevity? - Why Women Are UNHAPPY: The unsettling reason behind women’s relationship dissatisfaction and the FEARS they face daily - Men’s Emotional Needs: How today’s involved dads are CHANGING EVERYTHING - Social Media’s Role in Cheating: How it’s fueling nonmonogamy and screwing up your communication - Effects of porn addiction on the other partner - Key communication factors in healthy partnerships - The Managerial Marriage: Why losing PLAYTIME is the nail in the coffin for happy marriages - The Power of a 6-SECOND KISS: This simple act could SAVE your relationship! TUNE IN to MBB now & learn how to turn around your relationship before it’s too late!

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0:00.0	Epidemiologists who study disease and illness and pandemics were really interested in longevity
0:11.2	and thought that diet and cholesterol were the important ingredients
0:15.5	and not having arteries that are clogged up with cholesterol and plaque would
0:20.0	matter the most to give people health and longevity and the ability to fight disease
0:26.8	was the quality of their closest relationships.
0:30.6	And those relationships had to have the ingredients of high levels of trust and high levels of commitment.
0:38.0	In other words, you're really cherishing another person and saying,
0:42.0	there's nothing in the world that can replace you.
0:45.8	You're it for me. And when a love relationship and a family relationship has
0:51.2	those qualities of trust and
0:53.3	commitment. People are healthier, they recover from illness faster, they live
0:58.0	longer, and their children prosper much, much more, dramatically more.
1:03.0	When marriages are struggling, people grow distant from one another.
1:07.0	They're really afraid to bring problems in the relationship because it's going to lead to conflict, conflict won't be resolved,
1:16.7	they'll use the wrong methods of speaking to one another, it will hurt one another and
1:21.8	cause emotional rumors. and so they stop bringing up
1:26.1	their problems in order to just have peace and quiet and they grow more and
1:31.6	more emotionally distant over time. and they end with a
1:35.0	end with a shout, you know, they end with a shout,
1:37.8	you know, they end with a whimper.
1:39.8	What couples often really need to do first of all is to carve out time to talk about what they need from the relationship and they don't bring up what their needs are by bringing up
1:57.0	criticisms or contempt, which are the big predictors,
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