Dr. Shefali Tsabary | The Parenting Map: Your Guide To Conscious Parenting + Understanding Parent-Child Relationship Dynamics (Letting Go of Parental Ego)
Wellness + Wisdom Podcast
Josh Trent
4.8 • 913 Ratings
🗓️ 26 September 2023
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Wellness + Wisdom | Episode 573
Do you know how to let go of your ego as a parent?
Dr. Shefali Tsabary, world-renowned clinical psychologist, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom podcast, episode 573, to share how parents can transition from parenting driven by conditioned patterns to conscious parenting, why parents have the need to control their children, and how the five masks of the ego serve as a survival mechanism.
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"Parenting today is under a deep crisis because we've been doing it the way we were told to do it. Parents are unable to individuate and break free themselves because they're so enmeshed with the parental indoctrination from their childhood that they need to present as perfect or happy or cheerful. That's why they can't allow their children to be autonomous individuated separate human beings and control their children." - Dr. Shefali Tsabary
In This Episode, Dr. Shefali Tsabary Uncovers:
- (01:30) What Is Conscious Parenting?
- (06:25) Getting Caught Up in The Matrix
- (09:40) The Ego-Driven Parenting
- (13:50) Traditions + Conditioned Patterns
- (15:55) Why Do Parents Control Their Children?
- (20:50) The 5 Masks of Our Ego
- (23:30) The Origin of Toxic Men
- (28:00) Why Some Women Hate All Men
- (31:10) Dr. Shefali on Gender Dysphoria
- (36:55) The Human Path Away from Nature to Technology
- (42:45) Learn to Stay True to Yourself
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| 0:00.0 | We're operating from such a place of anxiety that we are just surviving in this parental journey. |
| 0:08.5 | And one of the ways we survive is we wear these masks. |
| 0:12.6 | These masks are triggered because of our anxiety and our desire to control. |
| 0:17.5 | We don't realize how sedimented and rooted, grooved we become in these very monotonous, |
| 0:23.6 | robotic, knee-jerk cycles, these egoic patterns which are very dysfunctional, but we don't realize that we're caught in them. |
| 0:30.6 | Let's break free from these patterns. So our children are not burdened by these unconscious reactive cycles, |
| 0:36.6 | because it's not that burden to bear. |
| 0:50.8 | Dr. Shavali, welcome to the show. |
| 0:52.5 | Thank you for having me. |
| 0:53.9 | Your shirt says awake-ish. |
| 0:56.1 | Yeah, it just means that we are endeavoring. |
| 0:59.4 | We can always try to be more awake and more conscious and more present. |
| 1:05.9 | Yes. |
| 1:06.5 | I love that word try. |
| 1:08.3 | I've been really focused on etymology. |
| 1:10.6 | And I understand the word try as really just an opportunity to either yield success or yield the next learning. |
| 1:18.6 | And one thing that I was feeling before I got on this podcast, and especially the timing of this book, we're talking about if you're listening on audio the parenting map and this is |
| 1:29.1 | I believe your fourth book yes is the fourth book you've written it's my fourth parenting book but my |
| 1:34.7 | fifth book and then I wrote another book which I co-authored so six books so this is my sixth book |
| 1:40.7 | one of the things I loved when I was preparing for this is I was going through your social media and you're just not the atypical parental person who's giving advice. You really |
| 1:49.9 | have a spiritual essence to the way that you describe parenting and it's written all inside of the book. |
| 1:55.8 | One of the quotes that really touched my heart that is a great frame for us to jump off on in |
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