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The Art of Charm

Dr. Gervais | The Art of Self-Mastery and Becoming Who You’re Meant to Be

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 13 July 2020

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover what it means to achieve mastery of a subject or skill with Dr. Michael Gervais, a high performance psychologist working in the trenches of high-stakes environments with some of the best in the world, training the mindset skills and practices essential to pursuing and revealing one’s potential Mastering anything takes some talent, but it also takes consistent practice and a persistent mindset, so what can you do to cultivate the mindset required for mastery, what do you need to push through the pain along the way, and how can comparing your journey to others stop you from achieving your potential? What to Listen For What does it mean to achieve mastery of a skill or subject, and why can comparing our progress to others hinder our ability to achieve mastery? Why is it important for your mental and physical well being to live in the present moment? What steps can you take today to make sure you are focused on the present so you don’t get depressed about the past or anxious about the future? How important is your mindset if you already have talent and skill? How can you use self-talk to build your confidence so you feel comfortable taking on new challenges? What can you do to eliminate the self doubt that comes from comparing yourself to others? What question can you ask yourself to make sure you’re trying to get better rather than comparing your progress to others? How do you sort through conflicting advice on your way to mastering something? What can we do to let go of who we are now in order to become who we’re meant to be? Everyone is born with varying levels of aptitude in different areas, but just because you don’t have the genetics to be the best in the world at something, it doesn’t mean you can’t strive to master it. Mastery of a skill takes time, and if you didn’t win the genetic lottery, it’s going to take years of hard work. In order to push through the pain and suffering along the way, your mindset is as critical as your purpose, because if you don’t have a purpose guiding your mindset through the pain, the pain will win. A Word From Our Sponsors Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here! Resources from this Episode Compete to Create Finding Mastery - a podcast hosted by Dr. Gervais Dr. Gervais on Twitter Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube

Transcript

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0:00.0

What got you here won't get you there, you know, but what got you here got you here?

0:06.2

So it's an orientation like where do you want to go and who do you want to be?

0:10.1

You know like answering some really fundamental questions and then doing like a real task analysis a deep analysis like okay

0:17.7

So if you want to be this person and go to those places

0:21.8

What's a road map to get there?

0:23.6

What are the skills and tools that you'll need and how do you organize your day-to-day

0:29.0

Practices technical practices physical practices and mental practices to be that man or woman that you want to be to get to the places you want to go

0:39.1

Welcome back to the articharm podcast. I'm AJ and I'm Johnny

0:42.4

This is a show where driven introverts win at work love and life by

0:47.3

Developing the right social skills now. I'm so fired up after our first X factor session today

0:52.5

And the feedback's been amazing Johnny how you doing?

0:55.2

I'm doing fantastic and it was a great first session and I'm excited as we push forward now

1:00.9

We'll get to that later if you dig this show tell your friends and share what you've learned

1:06.2

Do you have a second? Are you ready for fill your untapped potential?

1:10.2

Feel like you're on the edge of success

1:12.3

Do you feel like you're just not living up to the expectations you have for yourself?

1:16.6

Well, if you're ready to accelerate your career and relationships to unlock your true potential

1:21.3

crushing it in love life and work

1:23.8

DMS X factor on Twitter and Instagram at the art of charm to learn more about our exciting new mentorship program

1:31.6

Johnny

1:31.9

I will work with you for an entire year to grow your confidence build deeper relationships to feel fulfilled loved valued and of course

1:39.3

Attract the right people into your life

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