Dr. Emily Falk on How to Rewire Your Brain for Better Choices | EP 596
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
John R. Miles
4.7 • 779 Ratings
🗓️ 10 April 2025
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
- How your brain calculates value—and why that system often favors short-term rewards
- Why your future self can feel like a stranger, and how to build empathy toward them
- How self-transcendent values like compassion and purpose reshape behavior
- What brain synchrony is and how we build it in conversation, relationships, and society
- The psychological toll of “not mattering”—and how to fix it
- Tools to overcome defensiveness and embrace growth, including values affirmation
- How seemingly small changes—like biking to visit a loved one—can reshape identity
- Why connection, not control, is the key to lasting behavior change
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Coming up next on Passionstruck. |
| 0:02.1 | The importance of social connection to us as humans is baked into our biology. |
| 0:09.5 | And so it makes sense that we have an alarm system that helps us tell when we're at risk of losing those connections. |
| 0:16.7 | Right. |
| 0:16.9 | So we're sensitive to signals of potential rejection or actual rejection because it then motivates a bunch of useful behaviors to help us reconnect, either with the person if we've done something that causes harm or with other people if we've been excluded or rejected. |
| 0:34.7 | Welcome to Passionstruck. Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles, and on the show, |
| 0:39.5 | we decipher the secrets, tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turned |
| 0:45.1 | their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you |
| 0:51.1 | unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself. |
| 0:56.8 | If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. |
| 1:02.0 | We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging from astronauts to authors, |
| 1:07.9 | CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries, and athletes. |
| 1:14.3 | Now, let's go out there and become Passionstruck. |
| 1:17.9 | Hey, Passionstruck, fam. Welcome to episode 596. |
| 1:21.6 | Whether you've been with us for a while or you're joining us for the first time, |
| 1:25.3 | thank you so much for being here. |
| 1:27.2 | You're now part |
| 1:27.9 | of a global community of change makers committed to living with purpose, leading with intention, |
| 1:33.6 | and igniting a life that truly matters. Let me ask you this. Why do we share the things we do? Why |
| 1:39.9 | does some ideas spread like wildfire while others fall flat, no matter how important |
| 1:45.9 | they are? |
| 1:46.9 | And what if the key to lasting behavioral change isn't more willpower, but understanding |
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