Donalda & The Entitled Abusive Narcissist | Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 20 May 2024

⏱️ 98 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Donalda shares her story of abuse at the hands of her entitled husband. What started with red flags, such as telling Donalda to stop talking to her online friend and Donalda doing the lion's share of the housework, slowly morphed into picking fights, arguing, and full-on rages. As things escalated, Donalda was then accused of cheating, as her husband denied paternity of their child. To help work through these abuses, Donalda and her husband went to couples counseling, only for it to backfire and empower her abusive husband even more. It's a story of entitlement, rage, weaponizing therapy, animal abuse, physical abuse, sexual coercion, child sexual abuse, gender roles, religious beliefs, post separation abuse, intimidation, threats, accusations, and the loss of identity. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses animal abuse, physical abuse, sexual coercion, & child sexual abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Dinalda, and Dinalda was married to an entitled physical abuser.
0:11.0	It's a story of control, rage, accusations, weaponizing therapy, and the loss of identity.
0:19.9	Thank you. therapy and the loss of identity.
0:46.3	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today we have Danalda. How are you? I'm doing great. Well, thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Dinalda is today,
0:57.4	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says
1:02.9	guest form. When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. And there,
1:07.7	you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at
1:10.9	Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button
1:15.9	and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And for today's episode, we have a content
1:23.3	warning and we do discuss physical abuse, sexual coercion, child sex abuse, and animal abuse
1:30.4	in this episode. So that is your content warning for today. And you're going to hear
1:35.8	Dinaldo's story today. And Dinaldo's story is one that slowly escalates until she doesn't
1:41.4	recognize herself anymore. It's something that's not an easy thing to talk about.
1:46.6	So a big thank you to Dinalda for sharing with us. And I'm going to get out of my way and your way.
1:53.0	Dinalda, the floor is now yours.
1:58.0	So I was born into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, known as Mormons.
2:03.6	But my parents, my dad was a therapist and my mom was an early childhood educator.
2:08.8	And I was the firstborn.
2:10.7	So my early life was one big series of tests.
2:16.7	My parents were teaching me to think things through, to question everything.
2:21.7	And I had a natural love for just the world and trying to understand how things worked.
2:28.5	And I would always have my nose in some project like collecting ants or climbing trees or something like that.
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